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    I asked my BF a simple question this morning over messenger, he saw it when he woke up and hasn't replied or spoken to me all day
    We've been seeing each other 2 months now and our communication level is usually good. Like he usually replies at least within an hour.

    I know it sounds silly but I'm starting to worry
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    yeah he probably hates you, you might as well end it now to save yourself at least some dignity
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I asked my BF a simple question this morning over messenger, he saw it when he woke up and hasn't replied or spoken to me all day
    We've been seeing each other 2 months now and our communication level is usually good. Like he usually replies at least within an hour.

    I know it sounds silly but I'm starting to worry
    Just give him some time. Sometimes my boyfriend sees stuff and doesn't reply for ages - he's probably just busy. xx
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I asked my BF a simple question this morning over messenger, he saw it when he woke up and hasn't replied or spoken to me all day
    We've been seeing each other 2 months now and our communication level is usually good. Like he usually replies at least within an hour.

    I know it sounds silly but I'm starting to worry
    He must just be busy or something, I don't think its anything to worry about, wait until tomorrow to see if he replies, he may have a good explanation
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    he's too busy cheating on you to reply
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    Don't stress about it. Sometimes devices say people have seen messages when they havent. He could just have a busy day or be doing stuff. don't fret about it
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    He may have been busy all day with friends/ family? Sometimes my boyfriend doesn't reply to me because my message wakes him up, he checks it, if it's not important he thinks: "I can just reply later", goes back to sleep and then he forgets. Things happen. Maybe try to message him something like "are you alright" or "how are you"?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I asked my BF a simple question this morning over messenger, he saw it when he woke up and hasn't replied or spoken to me all day
    We've been seeing each other 2 months now and our communication level is usually good. Like he usually replies at least within an hour.

    I know it sounds silly but I'm starting to worry
    Wait till tomorrow or when his phone fixed/bug fixed he'll have a reason... your literally me with the person I'm with :lol:
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    If he saw it when he first woke up then chances are he was too tired to reply instantly or was in a rush to get ready to go out. He might not have replied because he has forgotten about it and/or has had a busy day. Also, like another poster said - FB can say you have read messages when you haven't yet. I wouldn't worry about it unless lack of communication happens more often but if there aren't any other problems going on in your relationship then chances are he's just forgotten or is busy. I'm sure you'll hear from him soon
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I asked my BF a simple question this morning over messenger, he saw it when he woke up and hasn't replied or spoken to me all day
    We've been seeing each other 2 months now and our communication level is usually good. Like he usually replies at least within an hour.

    I know it sounds silly but I'm starting to worry
    2 months? this calls for serious action. Go to his house and unplug his xbox. Try not to get caught.
 
 
 
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