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    so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. i was a virgin and he wasn't. we've been together about 3 months and was excited to do it for the first time but it was actually just really rubbish. it lasted about 5 minutes and i didn't get anywhere near to orgasm. i told a few friends and they said it was cause it was my first time but it wasn't his first time so why was it so quick?
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    So, research it a little, due to a cruel trick on the anatomy most girls don't get there with the main event. It's all about the foreplay and after play really.
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    Can't really give sex tips, but it sounds like he was just focused on his own needs rather than yours and that might have been the issue.
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    First times are a bit rubbish, thats normal. Its gets better though, don't worry
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    Sounds like didnt care whether you finished or not tbh.
    Thats not a great thing to have happen. If he cares about you, he should want to make sure that you finish too!
    Ive never done it before so i cant really say anything else.
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    so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. i was a virgin and he wasn't. we've been together about 3 months and was excited to do it for the first time but it was actually just really rubbish. it lasted about 5 minutes and i didn't get anywhere near to orgasm. i told a few friends and they said it was cause it was my first time but it wasn't his first time so why was it so quick?
    cause boys are sh1t
 
 
 
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