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    My girlfriend found out i was watching porn by checking my internet history and she was furious about it and made it very clear that i was not to EVER watch porn again as she doesn't agree with me masturbating over other girls... I kind of get where she is coming from but for god sake ever man needs their bit of alone time to enjoy a bit of porn!

    I feel like i have the right to do whatever i want with my own body and that she is trying to be very controlling

    What is your opinion on this ?
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    Don't get caught next time.
    God knows how dependable on her not watching porn will make you.
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    Just demand sex 3 times a day, 7 days a week and she'll probably beg you to go back to porn.

    More seriously, I think her position is a bit out of step with modern relationship ways. This said watching porn can be a bad habit, much of it is vile and I'm not surprised some girls are set against it. There are only 3 options, respect her wishes, win her over or become a lot more discrete.
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    Click bait not even that bad bro, dirty guy.
    May Allah help more InshAllah with your haram acts by making you stop having haram relationships....
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    She can't control what you do. It sounds like she's insecure, but that's her problem...not yours.

    Watch porn to your heart's content, so long as you don't get addicted. If she don't like it, again it's her problem but she can't control what you do.

    How's your sex life? Personally if I had a good, active sex life then I wouldn't need porn myself, so I'm wondering why you use it?
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    To be honest it depends. Are you watching porn rather than having sex with her? It's obvious why she is miffed in this scenario.

    Vice versa if she isn't satisfying you, I can see how this would upset her and hurt her ego.

    In either case you're best talking to her and working out something that satisfies you both, be it you having more sex with her, her having more sex with you or her agreeing that she isn't prepared to have more sex so you satisfying yourself in other ways is fine. Any other outcome likely involves a breakup tbh.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Just demand sex 3 times a day, 7 days a week and she'll probably beg you to go back to porn.

    More seriously, I think her position is a bit out of step with modern relationship ways. This said watching porn can be a bad habit, much of it is vile and I'm not surprised some girls are set against it. There are only 3 options, respect her wishes, win her over or become a lot more discrete.
    This basically. If she is personally seeing that your every sexual urge is satisfied, then and only then does she have a leg to stand of when complaining about porn.
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    This is quite funny actually, because my porn won't let me have a girlfriend.
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    (Original post by adjf)
    My girlfriend found out i was watching porn by checking my internet history and she was furious about it and made it very clear that i was not to EVER watch porn again as she doesn't agree with me masturbating over other girls... I kind of get where she is coming from but for god sake ever man needs their bit of alone time to enjoy a bit of porn!

    I feel like i have the right to do whatever i want with my own body and that she is trying to be very controlling

    What is your opinion on this ?
    Then prepare your meat down there for some serious action.
    Ask her for sex a bunch then, let her handle it if she's the only one you can do stuff with.
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    Incognito Mode. Helps a ton.
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    Isn't good for you anyway
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    I feel like maybe she doesn't understand why you watch it because she doesn't feel the need to. Maybe just try and explain it to her. She probably is just feeling insecure and is not actually this unreasonable normally. But if that doesn't work you do have every right to do whatever ever you want. She can't control you and you watching porn doesn't actually effect her directly.
 
 
 
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