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Boyfriend didn't initiate conversation with me for two days,..... watch

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    So I asked him if everything was ok between us and he assured me that it was and he promised he still liked me... He seemed confused that I had asked and has now gone back to not initiating any conversation :/
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    So I asked him if everything was ok between us and he assured me that it was and he promised he still liked me... He seemed confused that I had asked and has now gone back to not initiating any conversation :/
    Things to think about: How serious is the relationship? Could he have been busy? How long have you been together, and is this something that's only happened recently? How important is the relationship to you? If he had initiated conversation, would you have had anything to talk about?
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    Does he have exams he's studying for?
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    Why won't you just text him?
    Simple as that. Problem solved.
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    Oh no, TWO days! That's so long! I'm sure he doesn't have other things in his life to do :rolleyes::rolleyes:

    Don't be so needy either, he can probably smell it as much as I can and it's not attractive.

    And as others have stated.. Talk to him first?
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    How about you initiate the conversation for once?
    Girls who expect me to do all the talking and they reply with 1 or 2 word answers and don't initiate anything themselves are uninteresting and I would get bored. So he's probably bored of you
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    I do this as well sometimes. I'm just a super independent person who doesn't need contact every five seconds. Doesn't mean I don't like the person I just have lots of friends, family and different interests to keep up with too.
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    I have to admit I would be confused as to why you asked too. I don't like being in contact with someone 24/7. I've dated someone who would contact me all the time and it was just suffocating. I also don't like contacting someone just for the sake of it.
 
 
 
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