I know some people who may be deemed as 'ugly' at first glance but once you get to know them, their personality outshines what they look like, which makes them attractive.
But it is also defined by society.
In some places something may be seen as ugly, whereas in other regions such a thing may be deemed as beautiful.
Someone may also seem ugly at first. But personality ultimately defines a person.
Ugly is an opinion. It's not even legit.
You probably look better than her