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    Why don't girls initiate kissing with me in clubs? It's only happened once, in where I did it and felt quite empty afterwards. I also ended up having sex with a girl in a club who was grinding on me, however we did not kiss at all. It was kind of like in a lot of porn movies, awkward sex with no kissing.
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    probably got crusty lips
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why don't girls initiate kissing with me in clubs? It's only happened once, in where I did it and felt quite empty afterwards. I also ended up having sex with a girl in a club who was grinding on me, however we did not kiss at all. It was kind of like in a lot of porn movies, awkward sex with no kissing.
    I literally don't know what you want us to tell you.
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    It's a monopoly or something like that. Chances you're going to have to do a lot of hard work to impress a girl in a club. They don't have to initiate anything with you - you have to go to them and impress them, otherwise they could just have their pick of guys there.
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    Kissing is a personal thing maybe more than say grinding or sex sometimes
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    (Original post by bluemadhatter)
    Kissing is a personal thing maybe more than say grinding or sex sometimes
    Kissing is more personal than sex?!

    :lolwut:
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    it depends, its usually ugly girls that prefer not to kiss, average looking girls usually will initiate something (from experience) and for the really goodlooking girls it really depends on how stuck up they are but i'd assume if you are to get in there you are going to have to buy them a drink and then continue to
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It was kind of like in a lot of porn movies, awkward sex with no kissing.
    There's a reason for this; some porn stars reserve kissing exclusively for their partners. Sometimes it's seen as more intimate.

    That may be the case here. They want sex, that is all.
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    Kissing lots of random strangers in a club. Cant imagine what could possibly go wrong.
    You can find some good anti-herpes creams online though.
 
 
 
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