Today's Western, feminist, liberal, hedonistic society has its basis in lies, dishonesty and illusions. It doesn't matter where you go, from the villages to the cities, feminists push 'girl power' and if you're a man that doesn't find that attractive or reasonable, then you're a patriarchal misogynyst, and if you're a girl that doesn't like that or doesn't want to be that, then you're a self hater.
The truth is that most men find petite, thin, shy, homely and chaste women attractive, and most men who want children want a women like that to raise them. At the same time, most men settle, because well, they aren't much better. Modern society produces effeminate, weak and submissive men. But this means that strong masculine men often have their pick of the ladies, and I'm quite certain they go for the cute feminine girls.