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    So I just finished first-year of uni, went out quite a bit, made out several times but that's all.

    I'm quite a good looking guy and receive eye-contact at nightclubs from girls, but usually don't do anything. My problem is that approaching in club seems kind of forced and unnatural for me.If I meet a girl during the day I got no problem flirting with her, but in clubs its different.

    How can I change that, any tips? How do you approach in clubs?
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    stop being heteronormative, why can't girls answer. scum bag!
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    stop being heteronormative, why can't girls answer. scum bag!
    Lolwut?
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    (Original post by NeoXx)
    Lolwut?
    you're nothing but scum!
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    you're nothing but scum!
    Go away troll
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    (Original post by NeoXx)
    Go away troll
    thats the best u have got, calling someone a troll
    homophobic ass!
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    stop being heteronormative, why can't girls answer. scum bag!
    Beta troll account lol

    (Original post by NeoXx)
    So I just finished first-year of uni, went out quite a bit, made out several times but that's all.

    I'm quite a good looking guy and receive eye-contact at nightclubs from girls, but usually don't do anything. My problem is that approaching in club seems kind of forced and unnatural for me.If I meet a girl during the day I got no problem flirting with her, but in clubs its different.

    How can I change that, any tips? How do you approach in clubs?
    Listen son your game currently sounds pretty weak. If you want easy mode then you need to drink beforehand.
    But i dont understand how it doesnt feel natural for you.. it does for me.
    But hey, maybe its just because im alpha. i'm not sure what advice to give you. If I knew you irl i'd take you under my wing and train you
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    Beta troll account lol


    Listen son your game currently sounds pretty weak. If you want easy mode then you need to drink beforehand.
    But i dont understand how it doesnt feel natural for you.. it does for me.
    But hey, maybe its just because im alpha. i'm not sure what advice to give you. If I knew you irl i'd take you under my wing and train you
    drink before hand? so you're promoting [email protected] now?
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    Beta troll account lol


    Listen son your game currently sounds pretty weak. If you want easy mode then you need to drink beforehand.
    But i dont understand how it doesnt feel natural for you.. it does for me.
    But hey, maybe its just because im alpha. i'm not sure what advice to give you. If I knew you irl i'd take you under my wing and train you
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    what planet tdo we live on where [email protected] is funny?
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    what planet tdo we live on where [email protected] is funny?
    You're right, it must be hard for a woman to be raped...
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    it doesn't go in when it's soft.
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    what...
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    what...
    What is "[email protected]" anyway? Rape via email?
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    what planet tdo we live on where [email protected] is funny?
    TrES-4b
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    (Original post by CurleysWife)
    stop being heteronormative, why can't girls answer. scum bag!
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    I don't think clubbing is an optimal environment for approaching girls. It's loud and dark and there is a large margin for....error when alcohol is involved. Just enjoy yourself with your friends at the club and not worry about girls.

    Bars are different and a better place for that. If you have no issue meeting girls sober during the day, you should have no issue at a bar.
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    Beta troll account lol


    Listen son your game currently sounds pretty weak. If you want easy mode then you need to drink beforehand.
    But i dont understand how it doesnt feel natural for you.. it does for me.
    But hey, maybe its just because im alpha. i'm not sure what advice to give you. If I knew you irl i'd take you under my wing and train you
    No offence but you wrote a couple of sentences and said nothing relevant. I'm just looking for tips to approach in clubs...
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    I don't think clubbing is an optimal environment for approaching girls. It's loud and dark and there is a large margin for....error when alcohol is involved. Just enjoy yourself with your friends at the club and not worry about girls.

    Bars are different and a better place for that. If you have no issue meeting girls sober during the day, you should have no issue at a bar.
    I agree that its not an optimal environment, but still lots of approaching can be done. I go often to clubs and nights are just plain better when you get on with some chick...
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    (Original post by NeoXx)
    No offence but you wrote a couple of sentences and said nothing relevant. I'm just looking for tips to approach in clubs...
    The only advice you need is just be confident and don't be a pusśy, man.
    There's literally no other piece of advice that will suddenly get you laid.
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    (Original post by NeoXx)
    So I just finished first-year of uni, went out quite a bit, made out several times but that's all.

    I'm quite a good looking guy and receive eye-contact at nightclubs from girls, but usually don't do anything. My problem is that approaching in club seems kind of forced and unnatural for me.If I meet a girl during the day I got no problem flirting with her, but in clubs its different.

    How can I change that, any tips? How do you approach in clubs?
    Me and my friend used to get each other drunk and dare each other to go and say the most random and stupid things to girls in a club, whatever we could think of e.g, 'If I do 10 push ups will you let me buy you a drink' 'honey, I've been looking all over for you!'

    Now obviously, some took it the wrong way and just walked away, but you just learn to laugh at it and move on with your life!
 
 
 
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