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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    At the tender age of 22, I've probably tried to go out with about 50 girls in my life. Apart from 2 or 3, I've always been rejected. I've noticed that being approached has always worked better for me...pity that there aren't more girls who dare to approach guys without holding a huge sign "I'm a cheap slapper".

    As for clubs, I haven't really gone for it that many times. I'd say the only times I really tried (about 5), the attempt was succesful, apart from 1...
    Girls can be such *****es that I understand that they're not interested way before I even go for the kill. Rejection is too crap.

    And I ****ing hate the "no sometimes mean yes" games. So I usually don't bother.

    I have approached guys before, and I am no slapper. :eek:
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    I have approached guys before, and I am no slapper. :eek:

    Me too, Im not a slut. Sometimes some guys are just shy, they like to stare at you, but dont appraoch you. So I approach them.
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    I have approached guys before, and I am no slapper. :eek:
    What I meant, is that in their head, girls think that guys will think they're easy if they approach them.

    I noticed that in the US, it's much more acceptable for girls to approach guys.
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    (Original post by BlueAngel)
    Me too, Im not a slut. Sometimes some guys are just shy, they like to stare at you, but dont appraoch you. So I approach them.
    Exactly. If they seem to be giving you the look... but some girls imagine you're starring at them. They must have oversized egos.
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    Exactly. If they seem to be giving you the look... but some girls imagine you're starring at them. They must have oversized egos.

    I dont. actually havent had many guys stare at me, its usually me who approaches them and get them talking, so they like me. If I didnt approach them, I doubt Id ever have a boyfrend.
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    (Original post by BlueAngel)
    I dont. actually havent had many guys stare at me, its usually me who approaches them and get them talking, so they like me. If I didnt approach them, I doubt Id ever have a boyfrend.
    so you force them into going out with you? :eek:
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    What I meant, is that in their head, girls think that guys will think they're easy if they approach them.

    I noticed that in the US, it's much more acceptable for girls to approach guys.
    Yes, I agree. I have only ever approached a couple of guys because I don't want to seem desperate or easy, like you said. I don't know why though, I think that's just how it is. But then sometimes you have to approach a guy yourself if you want to get anywhere with them, I suppose.
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    so you force them into going out with you? :eek:

    lol, noo I just talk to them to see what theyre like. But Im not the one who mkaes the first mood, I alway let the guys do that. After the chat and a few dances, if they like me they give me there number or drag me to there car , which I refuse. Or they just dont say anything, this way I know if they like me or not. So I dont force them, I just like to get to know him first.
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    Yes, I agree. I have only ever approached a couple of guys because I don't want to seem desperate or easy, like you said. I don't know why though, I think that's just how it is. But then sometimes you have to approach a guy yourself if you want to get anywhere with them, I suppose.


    Yeah thats quite a big worry fo rme, I hope the guys Ive approached dont think Im desperate. But its not like I flirt with them straightaway, its just a general chat.
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    (Original post by Investmentboy)
    1000's
    of what...men?
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    (Original post by Machine)
    of what...men?
    No, hermaphrodites just like you
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    aight, i am a 19 year old chick ( will soon be 20)
    and i NEVER got approach by any guys..
    lol....
    how about that huh?
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    flash abit of cleave... trust me
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    (Original post by OliverTomlinson)
    flash abit of cleave... trust me
    Yes good idea , it should work
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    (Original post by HamaL)
    Yes good idea , it should work
    lol soo true especially if your trying to get into a clu, A smile and flash always works!
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    Ive had one of them nights when ive drunk far too much beer, and my body is on the verge of convulsing.

    *poorly boy*
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    (Original post by OliverTomlinson)
    Ive had one of them nights when ive drunk far too much beer, and my body is on the verge of convulsing.

    *poorly boy*
    poor ewok, do you want me to fetch some chanseys
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    chanseys?!
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    *puts on Nurse Joy cap*
 
 
 
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