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    Im a 14 very nearly 15 yr old boy and im addicted to porn - PLEASE HELP

    So 3 months ago I watched porn for the first time. It was partly just a curiosity thing. Im not the kind of person who is in to this. I used to find things people find normal as over the top or wrong e.g crop tops, hot pants. A part of me still feels that. At the same time another part of me is un able to stop watching porn. I have turned from a very good, religious, modest boy into what I am now (that same person yet not).

    The first time I watched it was mainly for curiosity and peer pressure from some boys at school. After the first time I was disgusted and I didn't watch it again for about 2 weeks. But then I got a bit weird once , bit hormonal I guess and decided to watch again.

    Fast forward to now I find myself watching it every other day if not ever day many at a time. I AM NOT PROUD OF IT. But I cant stop.

    I am currently studying for my GCSE 's. I really care about my education - im predicted all A's and A*'s and I still try hard at school. But not as hard as I used to. My performance has massively slipped recently.

    I often find myself distracted when trying to revise e.g watching youtube videos or cartoons or porn.

    I AM SO ASHAMED. I wouldn't dream of imagining what my parents would say If they found out.

    Im worried my academic performance is greatly dropping, I try to stop but its sooo hard. PLEASE HELP.

    I just need some support from others because me trying to fix myself is not working right now.
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    also I know it has many bad health effects e.g erectile dysfunction
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    also I know it has many bad health effects e.g erectile dysfunction
    im sorry but where did you hear about this utter ********? erectile dysfunction is a thing youre born with. i have a 20GB folder of porn and hentai and since i was 10 i was ******* away to it and i have a nice and healthy chode.
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    (Original post by MemeChildPL)
    im sorry but where did you hear about this utter ********? erectile dysfunction is a thing youre born with. i have a 20GB folder of porn and hentai and since i was 10 i was ******* away to it and i have a nice and healthy chode.
    Erectile dysfunction is a common symptom of porn addiction. It is not "********". Also it's not something you're born with either; erectile dysfunction can be the result of stress, other health problems etc.

    Please learn the facts before you post inaccurate information.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    Erectile dysfunction is a common symptom of porn addiction. It is not "********". Also it's not something you're born with either; erectile dysfunction can be the result of stress, other health problems etc.

    Please learn the facts before you post inaccurate information.
    yes you are right but you get it from masturbating too much not watching it
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    same here, except im a girl lol. I found that writing and reading what I would rather watch really helps calm my thoughts and urges.. Almost music
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im a 14 very nearly 15 yr old boy and im addicted to porn - PLEASE HELP

    So 3 months ago I watched porn for the first time. It was partly just a curiosity thing. Im not the kind of person who is in to this. I used to find things people find normal as over the top or wrong e.g crop tops, hot pants. A part of me still feels that. At the same time another part of me is un able to stop watching porn. I have turned from a very good, religious, modest boy into what I am now (that same person yet not).

    The first time I watched it was mainly for curiosity and peer pressure from some boys at school. After the first time I was disgusted and I didn't watch it again for about 2 weeks. But then I got a bit weird once , bit hormonal I guess and decided to watch again.

    Fast forward to now I find myself watching it every other day if not ever day many at a time. I AM NOT PROUD OF IT. But I cant stop.

    I am currently studying for my GCSE 's. I really care about my education - im predicted all A's and A*'s and I still try hard at school. But not as hard as I used to. My performance has massively slipped recently.

    I often find myself distracted when trying to revise e.g watching youtube videos or cartoons or porn.

    I AM SO ASHAMED. I wouldn't dream of imagining what my parents would say If they found out.

    Im worried my academic performance is greatly dropping, I try to stop but its sooo hard. PLEASE HELP.

    I just need some support from others because me trying to fix myself is not working right now.
    how can you watch porn everyday? wouldt you get bored of it

    anyways i suggest trying to distract yourself by going out or revising. there isn't really much i could say to help you, apart from: if you really want to stop watching porn then you will
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    What's wrong with it anyway? As long as it doesn't stop you having relationships, it;s fine. And certainly at 14/15 years old I would say it's pretty much normal.
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    No one is born with ED... very rarely teenagers may have low testosterone developed for various reasons... but that is very uncommon. I have porn addiction and yes I do have ED issues. I stopped watching it for 90 days and my erections came back... my mood improved... my concentration... abusing dopamine highs causes many negative effects. And the ED side does not effect everyone who has every excessive watched it... otherwise well 80% of men would have experienced it at some point. I also got my testosterone checked and it was normal. It takes a long time to develop ED from porn though you... wont wake up with ED after 3 months... it must have taken 1-2 years for it to happen to me.
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    i started watchig porn when i was 15, im now 19 and thought i was addicted. dw you'll move on, its because its all new to you
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    Just keep at it, eventually you'll get tired or worn out
 
 
 
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