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    In a relationship I seem to get attached and I don't think it's just me or the females that are like this cause I feel like there's a few guys out the who get attached when in a relationship but are better at hiding it. The question is though.. Do guys hate when girls care too much because I don't quite understand why they would. It's better to have a girl who is interested in you and shows it a lot rather than a girl who doesn't really care where you are, who your with or what you do.. Something that really annoys me about relationships when it comes to an end is the fact that when you're in the relationship the guy says things like "I'll never stop loving you" and stuff yet when you both break up you never talk again like seriously did the relationship mean so little to you that you had to throw away the friendship too? Personally I'm fed up with this generation! I simply think everyone is expected of too much! This society's idea of perfect nowadays is ridiculous! Some guys think girls need to have a huge bum and big boobs, eyebrows have to be "on fleek" and hair and makeup needs to be "on point" yet if a girl puts makeup on people say it's "false advertisement" and that they're "Fake" :L Not to mention some girls feel the need to have a guy with great abs, big muscles and stuff it's so stupid, degrading and just setting a standard for people and making them change who they are which shouldn't happen. People should be happy with themselves and not feel like they have to fit the criteria of the 21st century and the mess that it's become.
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    (Original post by CourtneyMcG1)
    In a relationship I seem to get attached and I don't think it's just me or the females that are like this cause I feel like there's a few guys out the who get attached when in a relationship but are better at hiding it. The question is though.. Do guys hate when girls care too much because I don't quite understand why they would.
    We're all humans, you can't assume males generally exhibit less emotional attachment than girls. Personally I like the attachment, maybe others prefer more or less but the point is, everyone will have a different level that they find ideal.

    (Original post by CourtneyMcG1)
    the guy says things like "I'll never stop loving you" and stuff yet when you both break up you never talk again like seriously did the relationship mean so little to you that you had to throw away the friendship too?
    I felt the same but with my ex. Again, such sentiments are unisex

    (Original post by CourtneyMcG1)
    People should be happy with themselves and not feel like they have to fit the criteria of the 21st century and the mess that it's become.
    If the only option to be with a specific person is to be someone who you're not, then you should probably look elsewhere. You're somebody's dream girl just the way you are.
 
 
 
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