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    We've been dating for almost one month now, but I've known him since I was 16.
    I don't want to be his girlfriend anymore because he's really controlling and he's sometimes scary.
    He's 29 (I'm 19) so I think it will be different than dumping someone normally??
    The problem is that my family really really like him and they want me to marry him one day (genuinely)!
    So, what do I do/ how do I do it?
    Thank you.
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    Just say I'm sorry but I don't think I can be with you anymore, do it face to face though not via text and tell him that you are being serious.
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    (Original post by harlowberry)
    We've been dating for almost one month now, but I've known him since I was 16.
    I don't want to be his girlfriend anymore because he's really controlling and he's sometimes scary.
    He's 29 (I'm 19) so I think it will be different than dumping someone normally??
    The problem is that my family really really like him and they want me to marry him one day (genuinely)!
    So, what do I do/ how do I do it?
    Thank you.
    Be honest and tell him you don't want to be with him no more.
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    Just be honest and truthful. Don't let him intimidate or bully you into changing your mind, just tell him you don't want to be with him any more.
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    Sounds a bit worrying if he is scary. Age gap is a bit wide too. Not sure what your family are thinking about. Normally I would say face to face, his place and as honest as possible.
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    Yes, just be honest and truthful, don't be scared. Also if he tries to bribe you with Haribos or something don't give in, even if they're crazy sours ygm
 
 
 
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