Hmmm... i just had argument with my dad and i just ended up crying rather then shouting. i used to just shout but it seems ive calmed down away from that now. Also by not shouting it tends to get me in less trouble, even though granted a gd shout makes you feel so much better!!
i have arguments with my mum all the friggin time, last time i just went out drinkin.
now i dont even bother arguing with her.
and what happened to swim by mate?
hey all, just had an arguement with parents. iv already cried and now i duno what to do. it's a biggy!
To me u have done great thing by crying and made ur self light but is that all, will u do the same next time, "crying"?. no dear u r strong, be strong feel better, be on ur own. it is said that weak and liars cry' so wat u r?. be strong be ur self- will tell u more later
thanks for that! im feeling better, i think i just cried because arguments just aren't my thing and so i dont know how to deal with them. a lot of people scream back, but i feel wron doing that. i duno...
thanls anyway x
it does! do you say sorry afterwards for yelling though?
Debatable question. im a strong willed person but yet very emotional at the mo lol. so yes i do say sorry IF i have said sumat horrid and hurt feelings. i am also learning to admit when i am wrong. much to the credit of an adult friend who puts me straight about respecting parents. saying sorry is very hard though for a shy person like me but it needs to be done. usually say sorry after i have calmed down a lot.
perhaps your family are trying to do that? as for the *we don't like the way you dress* thing, i'm sure thats just a way your mum can stay mad at you, when she initially argued she probably realised how petty it sounded, and wanted to justify her anger at you by getting moody over something else?
apologising is always a good way to go, however if they take it badly remember that in case you end up arguing again....try a diffeent approach then. i never bother apologising to my dad, he doesn't to me, we just have a mutual unspoken understanding.
it's either me being rebellious, or everyone else is too sensible to rise to the bait...
ahh, you crazy kids...
you're out of the debate forum again! get back, quick!!
hehe, ive got used to spending alot of time outside of D+D recently. im pleased your looking out for my welfare nonetheless.
we dont want you to start losing arguments now do we?