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    i have a boyfriend who ive been with nearly 4 years but i still have some sort of feelings for an ex? confused.com. me and my ex went out back when we were in high school. however we have always had some sort of click between us both. We would go months without speaking but then we would bump into eachother on a night out ans just click and get on so well and i feel like i have this other life that i want to live. is this right/normal?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i have a boyfriend who ive been with nearly 4 years but i still have some sort of feelings for an ex? confused.com. me and my ex went out back when we were in high school. however we have always had some sort of click between us both. We would go months without speaking but then we would bump into eachother on a night out ans just click and get on so well and i feel like i have this other life that i want to live. is this right/normal?
    When you are seeing or talking to an ex, it's natural for feelings to stir up again, as they were once an important person In your life. However, don’t confuse the “good conversation” with your ex, with what you have right now, with a nice guy. I’d say, steer away from spending time with him on nights out. A polite acknowledgment nod, or hello, is appropriate. But anything further than that, then it starts becoming a bit emotional and difficult, like it is now.
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    (Original post by stargirl63)
    When you are seeing or talking to an ex, it's natural for feelings to stir up again, as they were once an important person In your life. However, don’t confuse the “good conversation” with your ex, with what you have right now, with a nice guy. I’d say, steer away from spending time with him on nights out. A polite acknowledgment nod, or hello, is appropriate. But anything further than that, then it starts becoming a bit emotional and difficult, like it is now.
    I wholeheartedly agree. Good shout, stargirl63!
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    You obviously stil like your ex. Of course it's normal to still like your ex...
 
 
 
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