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    Hey,
    So for around 2 years or so (Since 2014) I started dating girls, a lot. This was due to meeting a new group of friends. It was a large group and I must have dated around 7 girls from it?
    Anyhow, there was this one chick who led me on for a really long while, she knew what she was doing whilst she claimed to be my bestfriend. Then my guy bestfriend and she got together and started ****ging me off. I'm not here to rant about that stuff but anyway.

    Since those times it honestly feels like I can no longer feel any form of affection for a girl. What I mean by this is I occasionally see a girl i'm attracted to, i feel that attraction but if we start speaking it all goes? It's really weird. Sometimes my head and heart feels like I want a relationship but 67% of the time it's the opposite.
    If I do start trying to speak to a girl I can't keep it up because those feelings are gone really quickly and Its like i'm trying to lead them on, which isn't the case.

    Does anyone else get this?
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    Obviously you still want this other girl and haven't accepted or got over how she treated you. Also someone being best friends is meaningless.
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    (Original post by WakingTheReaper)
    I must have dated around 7 girls from it?
    uh..
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    (Original post by BirdIsWord)
    uh..
    Use your words and make complete sentences. Come on... You can do it.

    OP I think you'll be back to your normal feelings eventually when you meet the right person. Don't relate I'm not jaded but I can totally see why someone would be.
 
 
 
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