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    My two friends are going to a festival in a few weeks and never asked me to come.

    One of my friends took one of my dresses for the festival and neither have even mentioned about me joining, but still chat to me about it a bit. They know that they haven't invited me because of comments they've previously made or little looks. They're my two best friends, although when they booked it i wasn't that close with them but i still could've purchased a ticket after they had.

    I don't like to push myself on people if they clearly don't want me to join them, i don't know how to act about it, do i say something now or just leave it or leave it but make it known I'm upset/hurt i've been this left out?

    Please help..
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    (Original post by lousmithy)
    My two friends are going to a festival in a few weeks and never asked me to come.

    One of my friends took one of my dresses for the festival and neither have even mentioned about me joining, but still chat to me about it a bit. They know that they haven't invited me because of comments they've previously made or little looks. They're my two best friends, although when they booked it i wasn't that close with them but i still could've purchased a ticket after they had.

    I don't like to push myself on people if they clearly don't want me to join them, i don't know how to act about it, do i say something now or just leave it or leave it but make it known I'm upset/hurt i've been this left out?

    Please help..
    Tell them that they are snakes for not inviting you and taking your stuff
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    Would you really call them your best friends?

    Talk to them about it. Only then you'll find out.
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    Flat out ask them. If it was a ,they booked it while you guys weren't great and there are now no tickets left, kinda response then there's not much you can do but if its a they didnt want you there then ask them why
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    It's going to irritate you further if you don't find some closure.
    I mean you're going to start to see them in a negative light.

    So ask them about it.
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    I'd let this one go, there are plenty of other opportunities that will come up Besides sometimes I only invite my most distant friends to the best occasions, so you shouldn't think too much about it Maybe they haven't seen any interest from you?
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    tbh if you weren't good friends when they booked it it may have never crossed their mind to invite you, it would probably have been fine to say you wanted to join them and suggest looking for another ticket

    I would write it off, there's not necessarily any malice there and if you don't see any other hints they're not very nice I wouldn't worry
 
 
 
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