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    Basically, met this girl for a while last year. Didn't work out. Rekindled in March but said we couldn't have anything until exams are over. Admittedly I felt I was being kind of needy, not to a stalking level but would tend to put more focus on her than my exams. However I feel like she did lead me on as we met yo during this time perid and we kissed implying feelings. I asked to meet a few times and she said no. I basically said what's going on and she said I don't want anything serious. Told her that she had strung me along and that we needed distance. It was both our fault so I text her saying that things got blown out of proportion and that a friendship suited well. She then said she was annoyed at how things were left and that she doesn't want to lose yeh friendship. I can tell she being sincere and agreed to meet her this Wednesday to talk about it. Is this the right thing to do?
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    Well yeah, I'd say meeting her to talk things through seems like a good option. Definitely would advise against having a relationship with her though, no matter what she says. But otherwise you've made a good decision.
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    Well yeah, I'd say meeting her to talk things through seems like a good option. Definitely would advise against having a relationship with her though, no matter what she says. But otherwise you've made a good decision.
    Yeah I don't want a relationship! I can tell she cares. Going to just be honest and tell her then we can just move on and get on with our lives
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    Yeah I don't want a relationship! I can tell she cares. Going to just be honest and tell her then we can just move on and get on with our lives
    Seems like the reasonable thing to do, good luck.
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    Seems like the reasonable thing to do, good luck.
    Thanks man. Ya don't think it makes me look weak?
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    Thanks man. Ya don't think it makes me look weak?
    Not at all. Quite the opposite imo.
 
 
 
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