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    I have just started talking to this girl she is really beautiful however I havent seen her in the flesh yet only seen her on facebook. I was wandering what is the best way of trying to get to know her and eventually getting with her. What i'm scared of is me maybe freaking her out as I don't really know her has anybody got any advice?
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    (Original post by Willj98)
    I have just started talking to this girl she is really beautiful however I havent seen her in the flesh yet only seen her on facebook. I was wandering what is the best way of trying to get to know her and eventually getting with her. What i'm scared of is me maybe freaking her out as I don't really know her has anybody got any advice?
    You have deduced something without being shown true evidence.....

    in any case she could be a catfish, arrange a time and place to meet up, if they refuse on multiple occasions then you may assume they're fake(give them the benefit of the doubt first few times)
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    You should face time before meeting anyone.
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    Take things one step at a time. If you're already thinking about sex when you haven't even seen her in real life then you will find it difficult to reach that stage.or be disappointed if it doesn't work.
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    Lol at anyone falling in love with a girl he's never even seen on cam :rofl:
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    (Original post by Magic Member)
    Lol at anyone falling in love with a girl he's never even seen on cam :rofl:
    Well, he didn't say he was in love, but I still see your point. It's kind of silly to have lust for anyone you haven't seen, too.
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    (Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
    Well, he didn't say he was in love, but I still see your point. It's kind of silly to have lust for anyone you haven't seen, too.
    I shouldn't have said love you are right, but generally she probably just wants to have fun so while he is obsessing about how to catch her as if she is a prized animal, she is probably chilling in a club and actually living her life.
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    How did you meet?

    Just ask her if she'd want to meet up for coffee or X event sometime. If she says yes, don't treat it as a date; treat it as a way to get to know her, but by all means escalate if things are going well.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    How did you meet?

    Just ask her if she'd want to meet up for coffee or X event sometime. If she says yes, don't treat it as a date; treat it as a way to get to know her, but by all means escalate if things are going well.
    I added her on facebook mainly we have a lot of mutual freinds. I thought if I send her a freind request and start talking to her maybe I could get something going
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    (Original post by Willj98)
    I added her on facebook mainly we have a lot of mutual freinds. I thought if I send her a freind request and start talking to her maybe I could get something going
    The fact she accepted AND has been responding to your messages is a good enough sign, my friend.

    Not sure how your conversations are going, but if they're going well do as I said and you should be golden!
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    My friend, Tinder has taught me one thing: Catfish

    Facetime first, then meet up
 
 
 
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