i'm a female who does not get pleasure out of actual sex (penis in vagina) it's always been uncomfortable and kinda painful for me and makes me sore for days after. i've got a pretty high sex drive though and i absolutely love foreplay and oral. just wondering if you got into a relationship with a girl like me, would foreplay and oral be enough or would you need actual sex in the relationship?
would you date someone you couldn't have sex with? watch
- Thread Starter
- 21-06-2016 10:20
- 21-06-2016 10:24
Depends I suppose. You may have to consider them getting the pleasure from somewhere else, or trade a lot of oral with each other.
- 21-06-2016 10:29
Personally, no, but I'm sure there are plenty of men who may. It's not uncommon for women to not enjoy vaginal penetration and preferring foreplay, although from my (limited) understanding it doesn't usually hurt them, so is still something they can do even if they don't enjoy it.
Perhaps you might want to see a doctor over this? This also has implications if you would like children in the future ofc.
- 21-06-2016 10:31
Just from pure curiosity.. How many times have you tried?