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    How do you mentally digest this?

    I broke up with her months ago and I have not seen her since, but she has been posting things on social media which are very racist towards my ethnicity.

    I got over the pain of our breakup because she was very unpleasant in terms of how she treated me. I realised there were much better girls out there in character and that she was not right for me.

    However, it is just so strange to see that someone you were so close to was actually racist in thoughts towards your race all along.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do you mentally digest this?

    I broke up with her months ago and I have not seen her since, but she has been posting things on social media which are very racist towards my ethnicity.

    I got over the pain of our breakup because she was very unpleasant in terms of how she treated me. I realised there were much better girls out there in character and that she was not right for me.

    However, it is just so strange to see that someone you were so close to was actually racist in thoughts towards your race all along.
    Are you sure that she's actually racist, instead of very, very bitter/toxic and directing this hatred at you rather than your race?

    Oh, and block her on social media.
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    Is this even real? I mean who would be going out with a member of particular ethnicity who they are prejudiced against and then retroactively be racist on social media after breakup.

    What is your ethnicity.
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    (Original post by SeanFM)
    Are you sure that she's actually racist, instead of very, very bitter/toxic and directing this hatred at you rather than your race?

    Oh, and block her on social media.
    I am not quite sure whether she is just angry at me or whether she is actually full blown racist. From what she is saying she is pretty full blown racist, i.e. she is very casually racist towards how my race traditionally dresses , repeatedly.

    I mean, it is not like I even wanted to break up with her, she gave me no choice after repeatedly threatening to move away.
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    You'd be surprised at the amount of two faced people out there mate
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    Hmmm it's possible to be racist but date a person out of exception. You did good, just erase her from your mind & heart and find a caring non racist whore!

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How do you mentally digest this?

    I broke up with her months ago and I have not seen her since, but she has been posting things on social media which are very racist towards my ethnicity.

    I got over the pain of our breakup because she was very unpleasant in terms of how she treated me. I realised there were much better girls out there in character and that she was not right for me.

    However, it is just so strange to see that someone you were so close to was actually racist in thoughts towards your race all along.
    Yeah, I also had a boyfriend who was very racist, I didn't really know until I went out with him. He kinda hated everyone from my race with exception to me cause I was kind. He did make racial jokes and slurs though that resulted in me breaking up with him after I'd had it and realised that he's crazy (not only for being racist). I think he's better now, I wouldn't know xD I hope you find someone better that will make you happy x
 
 
 
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