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    Ok so I've been using dating apps like hot or not, tinder and all so I've got a bunch of matches but I don't know how to start a convo with them. I feel like if I just say like hey or something they will ignore me straight away. I'm bi so for me to message a girl is easier but have got no clue how to go about this. Any advice would be great for those who have been there before.
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    Just ask what he's upto

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    Roses are red, violets are blue, you're hot af, let me **** you
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    That's the beauty of gay (male) hook up apps, no small talk.

    It's literally **** pics or gtfo. Everyone knows why they're on the app, get straight to the point and send them a picture, or ask them if they're top/bottom, simple.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's the beauty of gay (male) hook up apps, no small talk.

    It's literally **** pics or gtfo. Everyone knows why they're on the app, get straight to the point and send them a picture, or ask them if they're top/bottom, simple.
    Calm down mate
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's the beauty of gay (male) hook up apps, no small talk.

    It's literally **** pics or gtfo. Everyone knows why they're on the app, get straight to the point and send them a picture, or ask them if they're top/bottom, simple.
    And what if that guy likes small talk and asking or sending penis pics would just put him off?
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    Calm down mate
    Huh?
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    And what if that guy likes small talk and asking or sending penis pics would just put him off?
    That 1 guy out of 100, okay yeah whatever.

    Why are you acting like you don't know what people use these apps for. Who honestly finds the love of their life on grindr? Get a grip.
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    What you looking for/into

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    I just want to speak to them like any other person but that never worked from previous experience and not really a fan of the sort of person who asks about nudes instantly. I guess I'm just romantic either way.
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    I just want to speak to them like any other person but that never worked from previous experience and not really a fan of the sort of person who asks about nudes instantly. I guess I'm just romantic either way.
    You're on the wrong app then.

    You're gonna have to actually go out and socialise if you want to find a boyfriend, and not just a casual hook up.
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    You're on the wrong app then.

    You're gonna have to actually go out and socialise if you want to find a boyfriend, and not just a casual hook up.
    Gives me an excuse to get pissed then :bigsmile:
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    That 1 guy out of 100, okay yeah whatever.

    Why are you acting like you don't know what people use these apps for. Who honestly finds the love of their life on grindr? Get a grip.
    I'll take that 1 out of 100 then
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    Isn't it insanely more simple for gay men?? I'd be like "hey yo wanna fck?"
 
 
 
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