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    Idk if you've experienced this before girls , but I have. A guy had shown me most of the signs that he likes Me, from staring , helping out all the way to imitating actions and subtly teasing. Then I found out from him that he's been in a relationship for a month.

    Guys why do that if you're not single?

    My advice to girls is not to assume a guy fancies you until he says so 😂
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Idk if you've experienced this before girls , but I have. A guy had shown me most of the signs that he likes Me, from staring , helping out all the way to imitating actions and subtly teasing. Then I found out from him that he's been in a relationship for a month.

    Guys why do that if you're not single?

    My advice to girls is not to assume a guy fancies you until he says so 😂
    Some girls do the exact same thing as well. It's happened to me before. Flirty, touchy feely, staring and all that.

    Some guys like to play with girls, just like some girls liking to tease guys. Their ****-teases. You will find them throughout your entire life, you just have to ignore their advances and sometimes them if they are persistent.
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    i never take any guy seriously unless some people witnessed him proposing me
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    Some girls do the exact same thing as well. It's happened to me before. Flirty, touchy feely, staring and all that.

    Some guys like to play with girls, just like some girls liking to tease guys. Their ****-teases. You will find them throughout your entire life, you just have to ignore their advances and sometimes them if they are persistent.
    So what's your advice ? Mine is to not to believe or assume until he says so

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    i never take any guy seriously unless some people witnessed him proposing me
    Lol good 😂
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So what's your advice ? Mine is to not to believe or assume until he says so

    Lol good 😂
    Yes that, but it's also about observing character. A lot of women lack the ability to assess a man's character well and end up getting hurt by a douche bag, or getting pregnant by an ******** that wants nothing to do with his child. You need to assess how he interacts with his male friends, with you, other females and how he acts in general.
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    (Original post by tailred)
    Yes that, but it's also about observing character. A lot of women lack the ability to assess a man's character well and end up getting hurt by a douche bag, or getting pregnant by an ******** that wants nothing to do with his child. You need to assess how he interacts with his male friends, with you, other females and how he acts in general.
    I now cba to observe actions. If he likes me he'll try to pursue me , if not he isn't worth it. I'm now not ganna take signs seriously.

    I was about to ask whether he's crushing , thankfully I found out beforehand. I never liked him but nobody behaved like him before
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    I now cba to observe actions. If he likes me he'll try to pursue me , if not he isn't worth it. I'm now not ganna take signs seriously.

    I was about to ask whether he's crushing , thankfully I found out beforehand. I never liked him but nobody behaved like him before
    I don't think you understand what I meant. If you want to know whether this guy is decent or not you have to observe his character. Fair enough if he pursues you, but you have to know whether he is decent or not. Instead of wasting time continuously flirting, you assess his character, see if he's a ****boy then go from there.

    Also flirting tends to happen when people like each other. I doubt someone will come up to you without speaking to you much or flirting and tell you that they like you.

    Also you may miss out on meaningful relationships if you decide not pursue/ convey your feelings. Trust me, i speak from experience.
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    I don't think you understand what I meant. If you want to know whether this guy is decent or not you have to observe his character. Fair enough if he pursues you, but you have to know whether he is decent or not. Instead of wasting time continuously flirting, you assess his character, see if he's a ****boy then go from there.

    Also flirting tends to happen when people like each other. I doubt someone will come up to you without speaking to you much or flirting and tell you that they like you.

    Also you may miss out on meaningful relationships if you decide not pursue/ convey your feelings. Trust me, i speak from experience.
    Some guys character is good , but we should just ask! I regret not asking why he use to stare, I am ganna ask. We've got 3 days left then we're never seeing each other. So no harm done
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    Some guys character is good , but we should just ask! I regret not asking why he use to stare, I am ganna ask. We've got 3 days left then we're never seeing each other. So no harm done
    Go for it !
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    Go for it !
    Thanks x in that way I will have 0 regrets & find out why guys do that
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    Then I found out from him that he's been in a relationship for a month.
    If he's genuinely ignoring his own relationship for someone such as yourself who he has not been in a relationship with before... then he sounds like a good ol' fashioned ****boy to me! Not saying that's definitely the case but if he's prepared to ditch his relationship for you then that doesn't really send a good message on commitment... as romantic as it is. No point worrying about it without finding out for definite.
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    If he's genuinely ignoring his own relationship for someone such as yourself who he has not been in a relationship with before... then he sounds like a good ol' fashioned ****boy to me! Not saying that's definitely the case but if he's prepared to ditch his relationship for you then that doesn't really send a good message on commitment... as romantic as it is. No point worrying about it without finding out for definite.
    He's not ditching it lol. He continued to show the signs. I'm ganna indirectly ask him on Monday
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    It's pretty funny to troll people like that actually haha
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Idk if you've experienced this before girls , but I have. A guy had shown me most of the signs that he likes Me, from staring , helping out all the way to imitating actions and subtly teasing. Then I found out from him that he's been in a relationship for a month.

    Guys why do that if you're not single?

    My advice to girls is not to assume a guy fancies you until he says so 😂
    I don't know what you mean by "helping out" I naturally help everyone and am always told I'm flirty.. I am not interested in a relationship with anyone but just want fun... It's not my fault people like you seem to think guys cant be fun around girls without thinking we want a relationship
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    I don't know what you mean by "helping out" I naturally help everyone and am always told I'm flirty.. I am not interested in a relationship with anyone but just want fun... It's not my fault people like you seem to think guys cant be fun around girls without thinking we want a relationship
    But it's different if a so called shy person does it.

    Thanks I'll Remember Guys JUST Want Fun
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    but just want fun...
    ...he he he :^)
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    ...he he he :^)
    Guys just want fun like what
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ...he he he :^)
    *Rolls eyes*
    I see how i can be misenterpreted their
    Perphaps what fun we want is for you to interpret :P
 
 
 
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