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    Hi
    I have a bf for 8months who is is not priotising me he says that the followings things come before him and even when we are married and had kids
    -family
    - career
    - politics - everything from being in the EU to minor polo tics
    - ALL his friends even if he said choose to save a life he'd choose his friends
    - cat
    - dog
    - apparently many more
    - then last me
    Also when I talked to him about it he thought I was moody when I wasn't and that he knows it would make him a bad bf but that's how it is. I feel that I flirt and flirt but sometimes he would air it or be like "I love you too"
    Or like when I tell him I wanna sleep with him and just bluntly hugs me and tells me good night and falls to sleep.

    I don't know what to do and what to make out of this, please help. Does he still love me?
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    You need to talk to him. He doesn't sound that interested.
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    Why are you with a guy who thinks you are dirt?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi
    I have a bf for 8months who is is not priotising me he says that the followings things come before him and even when we are married and had kids
    -family
    - career
    - politics - everything from being in the EU to minor polo tics
    - ALL his friends even if he said choose to save a life he'd choose his friends
    - cat
    - dog
    - apparently many more
    - then last me
    Also when I talked to him about it he thought I was moody when I wasn't and that he knows it would make him a bad bf but that's how it is. I feel that I flirt and flirt but sometimes he would air it or be like "I love you too"
    Or like when I tell him I wanna sleep with him and just bluntly hugs me and tells me good night and falls to sleep.

    I don't know what to do and what to make out of this, please help. Does he still love me?
    Surely you already know the answer?! Leave him!
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    End it.
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    Wtf? :/ He sounds like an absolute ********. You need to throw him away
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    He said that he's known his friends more than me and his loyality is deeper than it is with mine. ://
 
 
 
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