Worried regarding family putting pressure on me to marry Watch
Now, my most respected uncle may even tell me, I want you to be married soon and even if it's not someone you like, it might just force it saying: "look", "just marry anyone".
What's their problem? It's my life, my money which I will pay for the wedding (I am saving up or give up to 70%), my marriage, you don't just marry anyone, you spending your whole life with this person.
They don't even tell me nice things like "I hope you get someone nice", they say nice things about my sister but not me.
I'm scared they take my power away from me and treating me like a boy saying I want you married soon or this and this will happen if I don't.
I'm thinking, what the hell? At least give me the chance to date, look for someone and I'm still 27, geez I don't have to be married until 30, 31.
I'm sure it's difficult if your family are putting this much pressure on you but you may need to just take a stand and tell them they can't control you.
Yeah, it's my life and they cannot control me.
My dad is super harsh, I've lost my mother at a young age, I'm in a good job, I've done nothing wrong, I'm warm, kind, loyal, good character, good to talk to, have all these good qualities, yet, he thinks if I don't marry by 28/29, no women will want me because of that age and he thinks negatively of anything. It's almost like just marry the first women who shows interest in you, just marry anyone and make it work out.
I replied "27 is young for marriage" he replied "not young, men get married at 25". He spoke about my cousin who is 39 and don't want you to bee like him. The thing is I know men who have married at 31 and even females who have married at 30, 31.
Nothing wrong with marrying between 30-32, I will get someone.
I don't understand his problem with age and general worry regarding age, I'm only 27 and will find someone, no need to put pressure or rush into things. He is just blowing things out of proportion with age, I'm only young.
Your family: "Get married."
You guys don't understand, he loses the plot with age, it's perfectly normal for a man to get married at 30-31, he thinks it's ancient and no women will got for a guy if he's single at 29 even if they have everything sorted out like finances. I'm only 27.