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    Ive been liking this girl for a while now , we have been on a range of dates and we have expressed how we feel. However due to us being at different universities she can't commit to this relationship , she finishes uni this year while i have 4 more years . We have been talking literally every day and she's become an important part of my life .

    Now she's said she wants to be with me but she can't due to long distance relationship , which i can understand as we would only see each other every term etc.. and as she's finishing she will probably get a job further away !

    So where were at now is she said she has no choice to put in some space between us , i haven't spoke to her for two day and i feel awful . Ive been in many relationships before this and I've never felt this way with a girl before .

    If we were together i wud be gutted about losing her down the line , but I'm not thinking that far ahead i just want to be with her now and live in the present , and when telling her this she just tells me I'm thinking like a " male " . She says its hard for any girl to be with someone then not a year later , and i have no answer to that .....

    I feel I've just listened to her because genuinely i have no solution to this , If i talk to her about this i feel I'm becoming to desperate and dont value her opinion and just am selfish .

    I dont want to lose her , can someone pls advise me what to do !

    SORRY FOR LONG MESSAGE !
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    Ive been liking this girl for a while now , we have been on a range of dates and we have expressed how we feel. However due to us being at different universities she can't commit to this relationship , she finishes uni this year while i have 4 more years . We have been talking literally every day and she's become an important part of my life .

    Now she's said she wants to be with me but she can't due to long distance relationship , which i can understand as we would only see each other every term etc.. and as she's finishing she will probably get a job further away !

    So where were at now is she said she has no choice to put in some space between us , i haven't spoke to her for two day and i feel awful . Ive been in many relationships before this and I've never felt this way with a girl before .

    If we were together i wud be gutted about losing her down the line , but I'm not thinking that far ahead i just want to be with her now and live in the present , and when telling her this she just tells me I'm thinking like a " male " . She says its hard for any girl to be with someone then not a year later , and i have no answer to that .....

    I feel I've just listened to her because genuinely i have no solution to this , If i talk to her about this i feel I'm becoming to desperate and dont value her opinion and just am selfish .

    I dont want to lose her , can someone pls advise me what to do !

    SORRY FOR LONG MESSAGE !
    Can't help but feel if she really wanted to be with you, she would not care about the distance.
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    I'm not trying to make you feel bad or anything, but she is definitely trying to end the relationship subtly... If I was you I wouldn't kick up a big fuss and just try to forget about it as quickly as possible.
 
 
 
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