Won't see my boyfriend for a month.. will he forget about me??

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helena2699
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My boyfriend is going on holiday for 10 days and then I am going on a charity project for 2 weeks. We have 3 days together in between the two but I'm terrified he'll forget about me. He's not shown any sign of it (we broke up for about 2 hours in a stupid argument but decided we couldn't not be with each other!) but I just can't get it out of my head. We have the odd argument (due to my anxiety mainly which can make things difficult) and have recently got out of a rough patch, which seems to have made us stronger, but generally our relationship is great. Any advice would be greatly appreciated; never been in this situation before!
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I dont know. How often does your boyfriend do it 'solo'. If he does do it a lot, he might eventually move onto other girls given that you are not providing him with your TTs and body
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No he won't, Me and my boyfriend are in a LDR, and we haven't seen each other for a month; it will be 5 weeks before we see each other next. We don't forget about each other. Just make sure you keep in contact.
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If he forgets about you after a month then he's not worth it and if he cares about you he will wait that long. I am in a similar situation where I won't see my boyfriend for over a month and we make sure to talk when we can and make time for it. If anything, absence makes the heart grow fonder...
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(Original post by helena2699)
My boyfriend is going on holiday for 10 days and then I am going on a charity project for 2 weeks. We have 3 days together in between the two but I'm terrified he'll forget about me. He's not shown any sign of it (we broke up for about 2 hours in a stupid argument but decided we couldn't not be with each other!) but I just can't get it out of my head. We have the odd argument (due to my anxiety mainly which can make things difficult) and have recently got out of a rough patch, which seems to have made us stronger, but generally our relationship is great. Any advice would be greatly appreciated; never been in this situation before!
If it was meant to be, he won't forget you!
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1 month is nothing, if he's worth anything he'll stand by you.
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If he does, then he's absolutely not worth it.

If he doesn't, then when you're reunited it'll be all the better for both of you!
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(Original post by helena2699)
My boyfriend is going on holiday for 10 days and then I am going on a charity project for 2 weeks. We have 3 days together in between the two but I'm terrified he'll forget about me. He's not shown any sign of it (we broke up for about 2 hours in a stupid argument but decided we couldn't not be with each other!) but I just can't get it out of my head. We have the odd argument (due to my anxiety mainly which can make things difficult) and have recently got out of a rough patch, which seems to have made us stronger, but generally our relationship is great. Any advice would be greatly appreciated; never been in this situation before!
Distance can be a true challenge in a relationship. That being said, from what you've told us I see no reason why he would forget you. If I was away from my girlfriend for that long I would extremely miss her, let alone forget her, so you're in the clear OP.
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Trust me, he'll by like "Who the fack are you...?" when he returns 1 month later.
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