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    Hi,

    I'm a 19 year old virgin and currently confused about my sexuality. Basically I definitely like girls. I have no problem masturbating to a picture of Kate Upton or whatever. However, in the past year or so I've noticed that I've developed feelings for a boy who was in my year at school. This happened with another boy before this aswell. The weird thing is, although I can accept that the likes of David Beckham and Brad Pitt are good looking, I can never imagine myself having sex with them or being in a relationship with them. It's like I'm extremely picky with boys, and I only seem to like ones that are quite feminine or have feminine looks about them or are quite youthful looking. This made me think that I may be a hebephile or a ephebophile. I'm sure that when these two boys get older I will no longer have any interest in them. Also if I were to swing that way, I couldn't imagine receiving anal sex.
    Do you guys think I'm bi-sexual or just like boys that look feminine/young?
    If I were a hebephile or ephebophile I would never do anything illegal.
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    I know that people like to label things but I am a strong believer that sexuality cannot be labeled... If you label something it becomes so definitive... sexuality is not something that needs to be defined, it's who you are, it can flow from one end to the other.

    You should not worry about it, if there is someone you like, then there is someone you like, doesn't mean you now come under a specific label
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi,

    I'm a 19 year old virgin and currently confused about my sexuality. Basically I definitely like girls. I have no problem masturbating to a picture of Kate Upton or whatever. However, in the past year or so I've noticed that I've developed feelings for a boy who was in my year at school. This happened with another boy before this aswell. The weird thing is, although I can accept that the likes of David Beckham and Brad Pitt are good looking, I can never imagine myself having sex with them or being in a relationship with them. It's like I'm extremely picky with boys, and I only seem to like ones that are quite feminine or have feminine looks about them or are quite youthful looking. This made me think that I may be a hebephile or a ephebophile. I'm sure that when these two boys get older I will no longer have any interest in them. Also if I were to swing that way, I couldn't imagine receiving anal sex.
    Do you guys think I'm bi-sexual or just like boys that look feminine/young?
    If I were a hebephile or ephebophile I would never do anything illegal.
    Yup me too bro(i'm 17 though ...)
    hmmm.... the dark web can satisfy your needs if yer ever need to use it, have fun browsing around for hours on end lol
    Since you like feminine guys that means we can calculate how gay you are.
    So if you like women that's fine, if you like men that's fine
    So assuming "straight" porn is 50% gay (cause you got a bit of D in there and a bit of meat wagon there too)
    Then if gay porn is 100% (you got 2 D's in there no meat wagon)
    And lesbian porn is 0% (2 meat wagons no REAL D's)
    Then if you like man on feminine kid then this = 75% gay because man =50% for th gay bit and since a male kid this would also be 50% troo but since the feminine bit counts for something then i guess only 25% not gay

    Using (my) logic and reason i have successfully deduced you're 75% gay
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    Then again it doesn't really matter "be who you are" don't change or worry about anything for other people, you are you and that's all, accept yourself as who you are
    (Original post by rubybrown1234)
    I know that people like to label things but I am a strong believer that sexuality cannot be labeled... If you label something it becomes so definitive... sexuality is not something that needs to be defined, it's who you are, it can flow from one end to the other.

    You should not worry about it, if there is someone you like, then there is someone you like, doesn't mean you now come under a specific label
    Sexuality-fluid
 
 
 
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