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    My best friend of 5 years has always been kind of lazy, but lately I feel like she completely stopped making an effort to keep the friendship going... she's in a different classroom, and i'm always the one who comes to see her at recess, otherwise she doesn't move. I've tried to stop doing that and I haven't heard about her in 2 months, she didn't come to see me at all. She never replies to my texts or return my calls even if she is always on her phone and neglects many people because of that. She never wants to hang out with me and always tries to find excuses to avoid spending time with me outside of school, whenever the bell rings she's the first to leave and she runs away so I don't have time to catch her... she goes to a lot of conventions but never invites me or tells me about it, she never seems happy for me and she's extremely competitive, she often insults me whenever I have something that she doesn't, and she gave me a bracelet with razor blades on it for my birthday as a way to make fun of my past depression issues... I don't know what to do because she's my only friend but I feel like if I stop reaching out to her and making the effort there would basically be no friendship, she always tells me she doesn't hate me but it seems like she doesn't care about me at all...
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    I'd give up with her personally. Doesn't sound as though she's worth the effort.
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    Friendship is a two way street. You give and take. If you are only giving, it is time to put your resources elsewhere. I sometimes find that ignoring friends gets them to come to me. Don't sweat it though. There are plenty of friends in the sea.
 
 
 
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