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    Nearly 3 years ago I declared my feelings to a guy who rejected me in quite a nasty way. He told me I was not relationship material and am all about looks (definitely not true). I am not one for revenge so I moved on and was civilised when I saw him.

    In that time I have seen he is on other dating websites as I had joined too as I decided to move on as he had said no. Why is it now he has contacted me saying we should meet up sometime? I feel angry that someone could reject me in such a nasty way. Why now after nearly 3 years, is it because he couldn't find anyone on these dating sites and thinks that I would do. I would have done anything to have been with him and does not realise how lucky he would have been.*

    Whilst I know my head says forget him my heart still has feelings. Would you date someone who rejected you?*
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    No, he's not worth it. You can do better than him; especially if he thinks so low of you. I suggest you ignore him as he regrets leaving you because he can't find anyone better than you, well too bad. You just focus on yourself and when the time is right you can hopefully find a new bf. Good luck and stay happy x

    btw I would never go back to someone in the past, they are their for a reason after all.

    90% probability he merely wants to get his leg lover. Don't get pumped and dumped by this presumptuous upstart, you're better than that! :yy:

    he thinks you'll be easy because you wanted him before
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