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    My two best friends went to glastonbury without me, they leave a lot of people out of their two, including myself this time.

    This really hurt me, however i never said anything because i know it would cause an argument, i'm living with one of the girls next year and don't want to cause issues as i know it will. It's just made me doubt the friendship, she's hardly spoken to me since being back also…

    I always get disappointed by friends like this and makes me feel like there's something wrong with me (we're all 20 years old).

    I don't know what to say/how to react when someone says to me 'why didnt you go to glasto?!' because we're usually a three..
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    (Original post by lousmithy)
    My two best friends went to glastonbury without me, they leave a lot of people out of their two, including myself this time.

    This really hurt me, however i never said anything because i know it would cause an argument, i'm living with one of the girls next year and don't want to cause issues as i know it will. It's just made me doubt the friendship, she's hardly spoken to me since being back also…

    I always get disappointed by friends like this and makes me feel like there's something wrong with me (we're all 20 years old).

    I don't know what to say/how to react when someone says to me 'why didnt you go to glasto?!' because we're usually a three..
    :hello:

    I see that you have felt out of place in your friendship group, judging by your thread history, as long as from all the way in January.

    Perhaps it is worth thinking about parting ways with these two people as it is causing you great anxiety. As you've said that you're living with one of them, okay, you can still be friends, but try not to be a trio with them, if that makes sense?

    Also, I would suggest speaking to someone, at uni if possible, about potential anxiety. I'm not trying to diagnose you or anything like that but if you are suffering from it then you need to be able to be supported with it.
 
 
 
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