How can I have a western girlfriend as an Asian boy?

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I'm a Chinese guy. I have many beautiful Asian female friends but I find western girls are much much more attractive to me.
Even though I've been studying in Britain for two years,I don't have any chance to get close to western girls.(My school is a boy school...)I like working out and a variety of sports.So I'm not skinny or ugly.Would you like to be in a relationship with a Chinese good boy and what characteristic you are expecting to see? Btw,we don't eat dogs and cats.I know some people do,but I'd never seen a person eat dogs or cats since I was born.
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Go to the gym, do soorts and workout. While your doing that make new friends, try to talk to as many girls as possible dont even need their number just ask for snapchat. Then boom before you know it you will end up with a western girlfriend

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Plan B: get a high paying job
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Do their math homework
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a Chinese guy. I have many beautiful Asian female friends but I find western girls are much much more attractive to me.
Even though I've been studying in Britain for two years,I don't have any chance to get close to western girls.(My school is a boy school...)I like working out and a variety of sports.So I'm not skinny or ugly.Would you like to be in a relationship with a Chinese good boy and what characteristic you are expecting to see? Btw,we don't eat dogs and cats.I know some people do,but I'd never seen a person eat dogs or cats since I was born.
Your problem isn't that you are Asian, it's that you go to an all boys school. In single sex schools, it's generally much harder to get a boyfriend or girlfriend (unless you're homosexual of course). I went to an all girls school and although the "popular" girls had boyfriends, a lot of us had never had a boyfriend at the age of 18.
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that face looks suspicious :erm:
is that you :lolwut:
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(Original post by fatima1998)
that face looks suspicious :erm:
is that you :lolwut:
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a Chinese guy. I have many beautiful Asian female friends but I find western girls are much much more attractive to me.
Even though I've been studying in Britain for two years,I don't have any chance to get close to western girls.(My school is a boy school...)I like working out and a variety of sports.So I'm not skinny or ugly.Would you like to be in a relationship with a Chinese good boy and what characteristic you are expecting to see? Btw,we don't eat dogs and cats.I know some people do,but I'd never seen a person eat dogs or cats since I was born.
Why don't you join a club (I assume you are not at uni yet) outside of school try so thing new like climbing or snowboarding if you are 18+ go clubbing or you could try speed dating or a dating site just remember where as Asian girls are usually quite submissive (well the Japanese are at least) English or UH girls are a littel more upfront remembered overs here I. The west eye contact is not a sign of confrontation as it is in China ( I think that's the culture over there I may be wrong) anyway I hope I helped Salsa dancing is a good way to meet people just get yourself out there.
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Step 1) Stop referring to them as "western".
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Western as only Irish or Scottish with ginger hair, pale skin and freckles are the most beautiful and of course petite oriental one <3
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(Original post by Platopus)
Your problem isn't that you are Asian, it's that you go to an all boys school. In single sex schools, it's generally much harder to get a boyfriend or girlfriend (unless you're homosexual of course). I went to an all girls school and although the "popular" girls had boyfriends, a lot of us had never had a boyfriend at the age of 18.
Hhaha I was definitely noooot popular or cool but had boyfriends outside of school. Idk I guess it depends whether you're bothered socialising with the opposite gender, which really is easy enoguh. Join a club,befriend some people, meet their friends etc etc etc.

Funny because now I couldn't think of anything worse than having a boyfriend.
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(Original post by anna__)
Hhaha I was definitely noooot popular or cool but had boyfriends outside of school. Idk I guess it depends whether you're bothered socialising with the opposite gender, which really is easy enoguh. Join a club,befriend some people, meet their friends etc etc etc.

Funny because now I couldn't think of anything worse than having a boyfriend.
I appreciate that there are exceptions to disprove the rule but it remains a fact that a higher percentage of students at mixed schools are in relationships than at single sex schools.
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I appreciate that there are exceptions to disprove the rule but it remains a fact that a higher percentage of students at mixed schools are in relationships than at single sex schools.
Oh yeah probably true, but single sex schools do better academically :P

Saying that, a lot of the people from my school lack social skills with males.
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(Original post by anna__)
Oh yeah probably true, but single sex schools do better academically :P

Saying that, a lot of the people from my school lack social skills with males.
I would try to pass off my social ineptitude on lack of contact with boys but sadly that's not possible as I'm constantly around my twin brother's friends and it's not just boys, but people in general that I am awkward with.
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I would try to pass off my social ineptitude on lack of contact with boys but sadly that's not possible as I'm constantly around my twin brother's friends and it's not just boys, but people in general that I am awkward with.
me too dont worry ahahha.
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I'm sorry for replying 4 years later, also as a western girl, I find Asian boys way more attractive than westerners. A good tip: Try to find a western girl that has similar interests as you. For example, I love everything East-Asian and I found my boyfriend that way. Since this reply is 4 years later, you maybe have already found someone! Anyways, good luck!
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