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    And properly addicted not just partying hard from time to time
    but like...dramatic life or die intervention status type of addiction
    Like would you date a druggie/alcoholic if when you 1st got together they were straight and clean, and then they fell off after time? Would you break up with them during their struggle to kick the habit? Kick them out if they were living with you? Not let them come back in to couch surf for the night?

    Just wondering
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    What kinda drugs we talking? Is it really dank weed or?
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    I would try to help them through their struggle, maybe rehab etc.
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    (Original post by TheLittlestElf)
    What kinda drugs we talking? Is it really dank weed or?
    class a or whizz
    def not weed lol even though I know there's some ppl who are so intolerant of drugs altogether
    but weed doesn't really **** you up like the others
    so like if you know someone who started using class a or speed/amphetamines/whizz after you got with em what would you do? cheers.
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    (Original post by Infamous*)
    I would try to help them through their struggle, maybe rehab etc.
    well that's noble so like send them to rehab which is sooo expensive though lol like hundreds a wk so 1000s a month it costs. Somethin like that. So wrong.
    so probably you'd have to try to coexist with them and get them off it yourself. Would you put up with that? The withdrawals, the whole grime of the lifestyle? >_>
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    Can someone translate what he's saying?
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    well that's noble so like send them to rehab which is sooo expensive though lol like hundreds a wk so 1000s a month it costs. Somethin like that. So wrong.
    so probably you'd have to try to coexist with them and get them off it yourself. Would you put up with that? The withdrawals, the whole grime of the lifestyle? >_>
    If I truly loved the person then yes I atleast try to put up with it.
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    (Original post by BrianMcEgg)
    Can someone translate what he's saying?
    Can you not read? It's in the title.
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    (Original post by BrianMcEgg)
    Can someone translate what he's saying?
    He's basically asking if your other half wasn't perfect would you throw them out like last weeks rubbish.
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    In all seriousness I'd try my best to help them through whatever was causing the drug problems. I've been there myself, so i know what it's like.
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    Would abandon them. No amount of Love and support cannot beat drug addiction. Trust me. The onus is on the addict to get through it. Drug addiction is one of the most powerful behaviors I've ever seen. It can bring a relationship to its knees and then some. I'd not continue a relationship with somebody who is a former addict.Honestly not worth the risk.
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    (Original post by Gwilym101)
    He's basically asking if your other half wasn't perfect would you throw them out like last weeks rubbish.
    Exactly omd lol

    so...would you?
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    (Original post by Zargabaath)
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    In all seriousness I'd try my best to help them through whatever was causing the drug problems. I've been there myself, so i know what it's like.
    You have >_>

    which drugs boi??
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    (Original post by hezzlington)
    Would abandon them. No amount of Love and support cannot beat drug addiction. Trust me. The onus is on the addict to get through it. Drug addiction is one of the most powerful behaviors I've ever seen. It can bring a relationship to its knees and then some. I'd not continue a relationship with somebody who is a former addict.Honestly not worth the risk.
    Wow. K, just wondering. So just one more time to ask:

    you were in a long time relationship, maybe even married or with kids
    and they ended up on drugs? You would honestly leave em?

    Or a relative, you'd get your folks to bang em up or summat, kik em out? :erm:
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    Wow. K, just wondering. So just one more time to ask:

    you were in a long time relationship, maybe even married or with kids
    and they ended up on drugs? You would honestly leave em?

    Or a relative, you'd get your folks to bang em up or summat, kik em out? :erm:
    Erm I'd be gravely concerned if my future wife ended up on hard, life wrecking drugs like cocaine/heroin. I'd do my absolute best to see them through it, for the sake of the family. If it's just a girlfriend, then I'd get out of there quick time. What do you mean bang em up? Kick them out of where?
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    You have >_>

    which drugs boi??
    Idk if it's against the rules to post
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    (Original post by hezzlington)
    Erm I'd be gravely concerned if my future wife ended up on hard, life wrecking drugs like cocaine/heroin. I'd do my absolute best to see them through it, for the sake of the family. If it's just a girlfriend, then I'd get out of there quick time. What do you mean bang em up? Kick them out of where?
    Kick em out of the house obviously...Bang them up like arrest them like ring the police on them.

    Well ok so you'd help them through it, thought so. A wife was "just as gf" before though so. But ok.


    I must be mental cuz I wouldn't abandon em, I'm not abandoning them now and I'm dealing with something myself and if someone abandoned me I'd probably end em. Like the rage I would have.
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    (Original post by Zargabaath)
    Idk if it's against the rules to post
    man you can't mention you struggled with drugs and then not get into detail lol
    you could just tell me :bigsmile:
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    Kick em out of the house obviously...Bang them up like arrest them like ring the police on them.

    Well ok so you'd help them through it, thought so. A wife was "just as gf" before though so. But ok.


    I must be mental cuz I wouldn't abandon em, I'm not abandoning them now and I'm dealing with something myself and if someone abandoned me I'd probably end em. Like the rage I would have.
    Hey I love drugs... ill post something dirty on here in a minute. Like porn videos.
 
 
 
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