I am part of a walking group and over time I liked 2 guys at different times. Over time they led me on into acting like they were interested but really were serial dating other people in the walking group. I found out they were dating others not from them. These guys knew I had feelings but decided to mess me around anyway. Since then the only way I have been able to deal with them is to give them the silent treatment and pretend they do not exist. I know this does not sound like adult behaviour but their actions made feel extremely hurt and doing this helps me to deal with it. I have heard they have told other people there is a barrier with me. I don't know why they would say this when their womanising antics caused this in the first place. I want to know what would be the best way to behave around them as speaking to them in general would be hard as I fancy them but ignoring them makes me look bad.
Silent treatment Watch
- Thread Starter
- 02-07-2016 20:42
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- 02-07-2016 20:48
Going to be difficult unless you don't go altogether. Ignore them if you want, I've given the silent treatment to a guy who I lived with at uni for half of the year, it works well if they don't try anything.
- 02-07-2016 21:31
The whole thing sounds toxic. Find a better dating environment.