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    Its been 4/5 years since I was at my lowest and due this this I made some very foolish mistakes (I don't need to explain what they are) and whenever I'm in bed or alone they always creep up in my mind. I hate this I really do.

    I know what I done was wrong, and I know my reasons behind my choices make sense - I would seek approval, company and bonds people who I never knew irl is all I will say.

    I learnt my lessons from what I did and I changed as a person - no more foolish behaviours or mistakes. I have made my life both in real life and on social medias as private as I can, I no longer need to seek such approval, company and bonds with people online. I am now happily settled with somebody, have blessings of friends and a family which encourage me every day to aim as far as I can for the future. And I know this is great, infact I do feel so blessed with them.

    But, I just cannot let go of my past. And although many years have passed, 4/5 years infact and my past hasn't yet come back to haunt me or caught up with me, I just worry so much.

    I just want some advice on how to move on, and actually how to do the moving on. I want some advice on how to forgive myself also.

    Thank you.
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    Its been 4/5 years since I was at my lowest and due this this I made some very foolish mistakes (I don't need to explain what they are) and whenever I'm in bed or alone they always creep up in my mind. I hate this I really do.

    I know what I done was wrong, and I know my reasons behind my choices make sense - I would seek approval, company and bonds people who I never knew irl is all I will say.

    I learnt my lessons from what I did and I changed as a person - no more foolish behaviours or mistakes. I have made my life both in real life and on social medias as private as I can, I no longer need to seek such approval, company and bonds with people online. I am now happily settled with somebody, have blessings of friends and a family which encourage me every day to aim as far as I can for the future. And I know this is great, infact I do feel so blessed with them.

    But, I just cannot let go of my past. And although many years have passed, 4/5 years infact and my past hasn't yet come back to haunt me or caught up with me, I just worry so much.

    I just want some advice on how to move on, and actually how to do the moving on. I want some advice on how to forgive myself also.

    Thank you.
    Did you do cam sex or what? There's no point holding back, you are posting anonymously on an internet forum,nobody knows who you are...
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    Did you do cam sex or what? There's no point holding back, you are posting anonymously on an internet forum,nobody knows who you are...
    No. I shared intimate stuff with people though, mostly messages and snaps.
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