Hey, once you've matched with someone on Tinder, how long would you give until you arrange to meet up?
I've been chatting to this guy (I'm also a guy - gay) for three weeks now and we share similar interests, have lots in common and we're both looking for the same things. We text pretty much constantly throughout the day. We haven't called or face timed yet, but we snap chat often. When do you think we should arrange to meet up?
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- 04-07-2016 23:07
- 04-07-2016 23:12
Whenever your ready
- 04-07-2016 23:16
Well, being gay myself, I actually think you two are overdue for a meeting. Ask him if he wants to meet up, and think about a place you two may both know about, its surroundings, its environment, the area (for the love of God, think about the area!) and how far you are from each other. This truly sounds like a relationship that will stand the test of time, but it's absolutely imperative you make the right call by gaining some common ground on your first meeting place. You never thought that a couple's first meeting place could have such an impact on their potential relationship (for example, my parents met at my mum's cousin's 21st birthday party in a crowded disco, and they've been married for 27 years now!) so consider your options. This probably won't be of much use, but keep it in mind.
- 04-07-2016 23:21
Facetime first, but whenever you both feel ready
- 04-07-2016 23:29
My friend met her girlfriend on Tinder around about March/April, and she met her last week they do live pretty far apart though, the girl is like an hour's drive from my town.
- 04-07-2016 23:34
That is really nice , but I think you should face - time and see him , because I have had experience about meeting someone up from the Internet , I know how it feels to be like wow this is going well and one thing happens and you just don't expect it as the person is not who you think they are ,
But just give it time and when you are ready for it .
Just like "adamski191" - has said the place and area is very important in this . But just as long as you feel happy and he feels happy that is all that matters . 😉😉😜
- 04-07-2016 23:41
3 weeks? Sheesh. Surprised somebody maintains interest that long; everybody that uses tinder from what I've seen just gets the number and meets up within a few days
- 05-07-2016 03:46
I thought Tinder was just for straight people. Learn something new every day.
- 05-07-2016 13:51