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    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7months and we havnt kissed .
    But he keeps asking me for a blowjob.
    Last time I was round his house and it was just us we went upstairs and he just like asked me flat out !!
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    If you're not comfortable with it, dont do it.

    Cant emphasize this enough.
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    How old are you both?
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    For a second I thought he wanted one just before kissing you, which would be nasty .
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    We're both 15
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    No just no.
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    Its all up to you, no one can tell you what to decide but only give our opinions. Do what you are comfortable with. With my boyfriend, he wanted to go faster that i did but was good when i said i didn't want to and never pushed it. Personally i think you should kiss and make out a bit before going in for oral because its kinda a big deal. You're only young so going really fast is really not a necessity. Just go at the pace you want to, if he forces the point and you dont want to do it, hes not worth bothering with. Relationships are two way, not one Hope this helps x
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    He's not a boyfriend - he's a selfish little boy. You deserve better.
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    (Original post by anonomon)
    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7months and we havnt kissed .
    But he keeps asking me for a blowjob.
    Last time I was round his house and it was just us we went upstairs and he just like asked me flat out !!
    You haven't kissed after 7 months... He isn't your boyfriend. That would imply that he wanted some sort of emotional connection. He has proved that he just wants one thing and is an immature little boy, ditch him.
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    (Original post by anonomon)
    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7months and we havnt kissed .
    But he keeps asking me for a blowjob.
    Last time I was round his house and it was just us we went upstairs and he just like asked me flat out !!
    How can you be with someone for 7 months and not kiss?
    I never knew 15 yrs old ask for blowjobs
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    Well if youve not kissed by now, something isnt right!
    It sounds like he wants sex and thats it.
    Id ask him if he actually wants a relationship!
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    (Original post by anonomon)
    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7months and we havnt kissed .
    But he keeps asking me for a blowjob.
    Last time I was round his house and it was just us we went upstairs and he just like asked me flat out !!
    Nearly a year,and not kissed? What do you do? Do you even touch? :-/

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    (Original post by anonomon)
    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7months and we havnt kissed .
    But he keeps asking me for a blowjob.
    Last time I was round his house and it was just us we went upstairs and he just like asked me flat out !!
    That isn't a boyfriend, that is an a**hole. You can do better than that
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    Don't do I before you guys kiss and tell that you guys should be kissing and tell him let's wait till we're both 16
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    (Original post by XOR_)
    For a second I thought he wanted one just before kissing you, which would be nasty .
    lol good one there
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    He's not a boyfriend - he's a selfish little boy. You deserve better.
    Well said!
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    so you can't even touch lips for 7 months
    yet he has the aducaity to ask for a blowjob, seems legit

    clearly this is not a serious relationship, especially because your 15, just forget it, he only wants his **** wet
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    ew. what a creep
 
 
 
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