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    So basically there's this girl in work who I'm fairly friendly with or at least I thought I was. She regularly seems to check me out and shows interest. However, as she has a boyfriend and as I'm not really sure if I'd actually want a relationship with her, I haven't done anything apart from talking to her when I get a chance.

    Over the last few months Ive sent her two messages about the place I was moving to as she used to live there.

    The last message was almost 3 months ago. The other day, I sent her the message below:

    Hi Amy

    I was up around Covent Garden on Friday. I'm not surprised you were looking at houses there, it's such a nice area. I wouldn't mind living around that area myself but it's way out of my budget!

    Will

    So I sent it on Facebook messenger and three days a go and she's just ignored it. It seems odd as she responded to the previous messages. She also started up a conversation when I saw her at the end of work on the Friday and so far this week she continues to look my way.

    Would you except a response from that message? To me it just seems like it's a big sign that she doesn't want to bother with me anymore. Is it best just not make any effort with her now, even if I just wanted to be friendly.

    Thanks

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    If she had a boyfriend then it is understandable that she would ignore you, girls don't tend to entertain other males if they are in a relationship. Especially males they are only sort of acquainted with. Or it's possible she feels she behaved inappropriately by 'showing interest' and is now trying to deliberately not talk to you?
 
 
 
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