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    Hi guys,

    Recently I got asked from a friend who is Muslim if I wanted to meet her in a public place just to catch up. She is female and I am male, but throughout school years I have got to know her as a friend. She is solely a friend and someone to chat with, that is all. However, I don't know if her culture/religion would allows this and I think her parents are quite strict. I get the feeling she lies to her parents when meeting up in public and quite frankly, I don't want to get her in trouble or intervene and come between any matters.

    So I am unaware of what I can do in this situation. Should I just meet up anyway or not? If I say no, I think she may get upset and if I say I am busy, there is the possibility that she will try to attempt to arrange a later date.

    I know this is a TSR forum and a very vague statement, but if there are any good answers or suggestions on what to do then please say.
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    ffs :rofl:
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    If she's above 18 she should be able to handle her own affairs.
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    Just meet up its not that deep
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    Both her religion and culture dont allow this. Avoid. Avoid. Avoid
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    I'm a muslim female and if she is just a friend then go ahead. Fam its not that deep. There is no death sentence
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    maybe she wants to convert you to get her reward in jannah
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    Just meet her. Even if she's lying to her parents and gets caught (which she probably wont), i'm sure she can handle herself.
 
 
 
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