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    I need advice on hooking up with girls. Ive found sites with good reviews for hooking up so they seem legit.

    Theres a pretty normal balance between munters and stunners. Ive been messaging the stunners and was having success chatting to a 28 year old woman who was gorgeous and lovely (im 24). I really liked her and wanted her. She liked.my profile pics and said she liked my kinkiness.

    Im not sure if shes going to get back to me now but i doubt it. She said.she needs to know a bit about someone before it goes any further, which is understandable. So i told her some stuff, like how i was.working and hoping to return to uni soon. I stupidly revealed i was a kissless virgin because of "a bit of depression" (in reality its severe mental illness and autism). She kept messaging after.this though and we were.getting on fine. But she hasnt got back to me since 9:10am today, though i have only sent one further message to her.

    What should i do in future? How do i get round my weirdly inexperienced at 24 problem?

    I dont have a great job and my body is slightly overweight though that weivht is coming off. Do i have much chance with these hotties.on hookup sites? I knkw meaningful relationships would be hard to maintain with a bad job, but could i get a hookup friend?
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    There's no harm in trying these ''hook up sites'' but don't get too invested in people on them and don't put all your fingers in one pie. If something comes out of these sites then that's good but if it doesn't then you wont be too upset as you wont have gotten yourself all invested in it.

    I also wouldn't let people know straight away that you're a kissless virgin at 24, not that there's anything wrong with it but people on these sorts of sites aren't really going to find it very endearing if they're looking for 'hook ups'.

    Also about this 28 year old hottie would you even know what to do with her if she actually came to meet you for sex? I have a feeling you wouldn't and you'd probably get yourself into a bit of an awkward embarrassing situation.

    Why don't you try to develop some sort of friendship with someone first, gain some confidence with the opposite sex, which you are clearly lacking (no offence).
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    (Original post by Reeeeyah)
    There's no harm in trying these ''hook up sites'' but don't get too invested in people on them and don't put all your fingers in one pie. If something comes out of these sites then that's good but if it doesn't then you wont be too upset as you wont have gotten yourself all invested in it.

    I also wouldn't let people know straight away that you're a kissless virgin at 24, not that there's anything wrong with it but people on these sorts of sites aren't really going to find it very endearing if they're looking for 'hook ups'.

    Also about this 28 year old hottie would you even know what to do with her if she actually came to meet you for sex? I have a feeling you wouldn't and you'd probably get yourself into a bit of an awkward embarrassing situation.

    Why don't you try to develop some sort of friendship with someone first, gain some confidence with the opposite sex, which you are clearly lacking (no offence).
    said she's more than happy to show me how it's done now and that my virginity hasnt put her off as we all start somewhere. I'm a bit nervous. I uploaded a photo which mightve helped.

    Should I go ahead if possible? If i do, should i shave my chest etc and elsewhere? Is that somethin to ask her. Also should intey to hold her off until ive lost the last of my medication weighr gain?

    My sex drive is high since stopping meds. I really want to hook up regularly with this girl for its own sake, but also because I think being a virgin at 24 gets to me now. It used to feel like a choice but now i feel undesired sexually.

    I have alright social confidence now.n ot great thoigh admittedly. ive just dug a hole when it comes to options. I am stuck in a small town etc. Theres one girl my age who i think wants a relationship, and i like her in a platonic way, but cant imagine her being that into sex and also shes not sexually attractive to me.
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    (Original post by Reeeeyah)
    There's no harm in trying these ''hook up sites'' but don't get too invested in people on them and don't put all your fingers in one pie. If something comes out of these sites then that's good but if it doesn't then you wont be too upset as you wont have gotten yourself all invested in it.

    I also wouldn't let people know straight away that you're a kissless virgin at 24, not that there's anything wrong with it but people on these sorts of sites aren't really going to find it very endearing if they're looking for 'hook ups'.

    Also about this 28 year old hottie would you even know what to do with her if she actually came to meet you for sex? I have a feeling you wouldn't and you'd probably get yourself into a bit of an awkward embarrassing situation.

    Why don't you try to develop some sort of friendship with someone first, gain some confidence with the opposite sex, which you are clearly lacking (no offence).
    Should I try tinder? Site was a scam
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    i dunno why but i can smell the troll :sigh:
 
 
 
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