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    I'm 19 years old and I am a ballet dancer. I've known a male ballet teacher since I was about 14 (because he taught my sister) but I'd never been taught by him.
    It wasn't until about 3 months ago that he started to teach me and he's quite a good teacher.
    2 weeks ago it was my sister's wedding and then when I was saying goodbye to all the guests (obviously including him) he kissed me - ....on the mouth?!
    It was really strange and then he just said goodbye normally!

    I've been to 8 ballet classes (with him) since the wedding and he just acts like he normally does.
    I just got a bit confused and creeped out...
    I'd say he's anywhere between 25-35, I can't really tell!
    What do you guys think...?
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    (Original post by harlowberry)
    I'm 19 years old and I am a ballet dancer. I've known a male ballet teacher since I was about 14 (because he taught my sister) but I'd never been taught by him.
    It wasn't until about 3 months ago that he started to teach me and he's quite a good teacher.
    2 weeks ago it was my sister's wedding and then when I was saying goodbye to all the guests (obviously including him) he kissed me - ....on the mouth?!
    It was really strange and then he just said goodbye normally!

    I've been to 8 ballet classes (with him) since the wedding and he just acts like he normally does.
    I just got a bit confused and creeped out...
    I'd say he's anywhere between 25-35, I can't really tell!
    What do you guys think...?
    He might have liked since you were 14! but didn't make a move otherwise he'll be thrown in prison for child molestation. Now that your legal age he proberly made a move.

    Is your teacher european by chance? cause I know some europeans kiss each other goodbye, hence why it may seem normal to him.
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    That's something that would be fairly creepy at 14.


    Btw did you say yes to that tall, dark and handsome guy or not?
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    Any tongues?

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    As a ballet teacher, he's probably gay. Therefore the kiss means nothing to him.
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    As a ballet teacher, he's probably gay. Therefore the kiss means nothing to him.
    That's a bit stereotypical don't you think
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    (Original post by harlowberry)
    I'm 19 years old and I am a ballet dancer. I've known a male ballet teacher since I was about 14 (because he taught my sister) but I'd never been taught by him.It wasn't until about 3 months ago that he started to teach me and he's quite a good teacher. 2 weeks ago it was my sister's wedding and then when I was saying goodbye to all the guests (obviously including him) he kissed me - ....on the mouth?! It was really strange and then he just said goodbye normally! I've been to 8 ballet classes (with him) since the wedding and he just acts like he normally does. I just got a bit confused and creeped out... I'd say he's anywhere between 25-35, I can't really tell! What do you guys think...?
    Hmm... 2 weeks ago, and still having lessons and only now you're mentioning this. You've been thinking about this for a while then, possibly even obsessing... I'm more interested in hearing what you think. Have you developed a crush on your ballet instructor? :holmes:
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    Well obviously if this is him seriously making a move, it's bad. You need to figure out whether it was just him saying goodbye in a completely friendly and normal way, or if he was making some kind of move. If he was making some kind of move, even though you're 19, this could be against the BATD or whatever's rules, which is something you should look into. I know first hand that you can end up getting very close with your dance teachers, but I've never had something like that. Especially after only working together for such a short amount of time.
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    Was he drunk? He might not even remember.
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    (Original post by adesola15)
    Was he drunk? He might not even remember.
    He did smell of alcohol but I wouldn't say he was "drunk."
    He had to teach the following morning and he's quite responsible.
    I'm just hoping he did it by accident!
 
 
 
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