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After someone had threatend to stab me at college, i got the police involved and the person who threatend me was kicked out. now no one likes me.. i have no friends, I used to be really good at makin friends and now my confidence has vanished and im starting to get depresed. The friends I thought i had just used me when it suited them 
I dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions? lol
I dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions? lol
go to a different college this forthcoming september?
loose the friends who r using u they aint worth the trouble. try and find other people who are maybe in the same situation as u and just try and tlk to people in class and stuff and find new friends. i no its hard when your confidence is low but maybe buy some new clothes and have your hair done that always helps my confidence when im feeling low. and yeah if all else fails and your really hating it there take hermaphrodite's advice but remember its only one more year of the rest of your life.
I cannot stand so-called 'friends' who are more 'users' than people who care for you. However, there are an array of things to be considered:
1. Moving to another college - is there one? How can you get there? Will it offer the same subjects with the same exam boards that you can carry forward?
2. It's only one more year of your life. I have shut myself off a little, during this last year especially, really concentrating on getting some good grades. Work, as daft as it may seem, will really take your mind off things.
3. To increaase your confidence, throw yourself in the deep end, i.e. join a club or society or something; or why not even get a part-time Saturday job? I lost some confidence once; I like to think that employment has given me some back.
4. People should be supporting you - you did the right thing getting the police involved; anyone calling you a 'grass' ought to be shot!
Remember, you have no reason to have low confidence. We are all (within reason, at least) dignified people. If you keep telling yourself this, it can really make life a more attractive prospect... Really!
1. Moving to another college - is there one? How can you get there? Will it offer the same subjects with the same exam boards that you can carry forward?
2. It's only one more year of your life. I have shut myself off a little, during this last year especially, really concentrating on getting some good grades. Work, as daft as it may seem, will really take your mind off things.
3. To increaase your confidence, throw yourself in the deep end, i.e. join a club or society or something; or why not even get a part-time Saturday job? I lost some confidence once; I like to think that employment has given me some back.
4. People should be supporting you - you did the right thing getting the police involved; anyone calling you a 'grass' ought to be shot!
Remember, you have no reason to have low confidence. We are all (within reason, at least) dignified people. If you keep telling yourself this, it can really make life a more attractive prospect... Really!
Hi thanks for the replies, I cant move to another college, as im doing NVQ animal care and the other college nr me doesnt do that. i work 3 days a week already, but its only a family run business, i do talk with customers but not for long. im not really sure what kind of club i could join I dont even know if there are anyround here.
how crappy for you! (i realise that probably sounds a bit flippant but i was being genuine and sincere! 
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make friends elsewhere. before your confidence disintegrates entirely, join up something outside of school, as jossyboy said - throw yourself into it. something animal related perhaps, if that's what you're interested in?
i'm quite shocked that the bunch of no-good imbeciles have turned on YOU rather than the knife wielding fool...
ppffftt
just cut them out of your head. find lovely new friends.
and don't let them crush your confidence missy/mister! xx
)make friends elsewhere. before your confidence disintegrates entirely, join up something outside of school, as jossyboy said - throw yourself into it. something animal related perhaps, if that's what you're interested in?
i'm quite shocked that the bunch of no-good imbeciles have turned on YOU rather than the knife wielding fool...
ppffftt
just cut them out of your head. find lovely new friends.
and don't let them crush your confidence missy/mister! xxchrisjorg
Is this really the situation in England nowadays? I am shocked! Scandinavia suddenly seems a lot more peaceful.
How serious is your problem with "chavs"?
How serious is your problem with "chavs"?
Really bad, all that scum should be locked up
where I live its not as bad as some places iv been to. I live in plymouth by the way. my parents dont even likeme walking home at night in the dark because im female, and one of our friends sons got his phone n wallet nicked on his way home from town the other night! i live in quite a nice non council area aswell.more adventurous
You're obviously not that bothered about it if you're "laughing out loud."
I did so because it sounds a bit silly and embaresing asking strangers for ideas on what to do. ok
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Hi thanks for the replies, I cant move to another college, as im doing NVQ animal care and the other college nr me doesnt do that. i work 3 days a week already, but its only a family run business, i do talk with customers but not for long. im not really sure what kind of club i could join I dont even know if there are anyround here.
Yes chavs are the scourge of Britain.
They don't wash, they misbehave, are loud, not very literate (if at all) and they're mulitplying out of control. I get first hand experience of them evertime I go on a bus (if not where I live). The only advise I have is to stay on the course (why miss out on a course you like because of that scum) and see if there are any clubs at college and the local gym if there is one.
more adventurous
You're obviously not that bothered about it if you're "laughing out loud."
I agree the lol wasnt suiting the mood of the thread, but I think it was a way to make it seem less dramatic and to seem more detached.
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After someone had threatend to stab me at college, i got the police involved and the person who threatend me was kicked out. now no one likes me.. i have no friends, I used to be really good at makin friends and now my confidence has vanished and im starting to get depresed. The friends I thought i had just used me when it suited them I dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions? lol
I dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions? lolSo what? No one has to like you.
Anonymous
Hi thanks for the replies, I cant move to another college, as im doing NVQ animal care and the other college nr me doesnt do that. i work 3 days a week already, but its only a family run business, i do talk with customers but not for long. im not really sure what kind of club i could join I dont even know if there are anyround here.
Well what are your interests?
where are you frm? as im in same situation and also doin animal care
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