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I think I am right in saying that it is men who are usually ready before women. If men will not have the mentality to wait until their partner is ready, shame on them!
Jossyboy45
I think I am right in saying that it is men who are usually ready before women. If men will not have the mentality to wait until their partner is ready, shame on them!
But men are biologically pre-programmed to want to have sex asap. It's not our fault! Saying that, if the other person wasn't ready then i would wait, waited over a year before, i could do it again (i hope)
Jossyboy45
I think I am right in saying that it is men who are usually ready before women. If men will not have the mentality to wait until their partner is ready, shame on them!
Dude...not in the adult world. Things can be different when both partners are relatively young, i.e. 17, 18, 19. Later on in life there is much less 'waiting' actually involved and people are 'ready' much sooner.
..shauny
Every couple is different. Some feel comfortable doing it after a week, others after a month or two. Me and my man waited 6 months before having sex. We wanted it to be special and we wanted to show that we were serious about each other. It made the whole thing more special for me because i knew he must be serious to have decided to wait that long 
Theres no right or wrong time to have sex, it depends on what both people feel xx
Theres no right or wrong time to have sex, it depends on what both people feel xx
I would wait a 'reasonable' amount of time. I think the likes of a year is OK when you are 16 but at uni I have to admit I would be beginning to get a little pissed off after a month or two, especially if you really like them, why wait?
SmilerNuts
But men are biologically pre-programmed to want to have sex asap. It's not our fault! Saying that, if the other person wasn't ready then i would wait, waited over a year before, i could do it again (i hope)
Yeah i heard about that too!
Listen to this kid!He is such a legend!
But its al true
Nevaaaaaar! Celibacy rules 
ajking
Actually from my my experience celibacy is a lot like celery..it is green,boring and does not rule!
Celeri is amazing
negative calorie food helloooo? 
if it weren't for celeri you'd be watching fat chicks on playboy 
Mikemaria
I would like her to tell me that she wants to wait until her wedding night.
But
that's a breakup line!
shauny
Dude...not in the adult world. Things can be different when both partners are relatively young, i.e. 17, 18, 19. Later on in life there is much less 'waiting' actually involved and people are 'ready' much sooner.
..shauny
..shauny
Fine, as a broad generalisation, that can be agreed. I'm not saying there's a fine line between the times of 'being ready'; what I am saying, though, is that any girl who DOES want to wait until she is ready should always have that choice.
ajking
No its not.Its what an extremely decent,well brought up smart girl would say
Read incredibly boring....
Ideally it should be whenever you feel ready for it, whether that be 3 weeks or 2 years.
Going for a general average though 2-3 months when speaking about loosing your virginity, after that about a month.
Going for a general average though 2-3 months when speaking about loosing your virginity, after that about a month.
Snarf
Until your wedding night? Is that why you're a member of the boredom society?
What is wrong with waiting until your wedding night? Consider a Catholic: not all Catholics are boring! They would wait until their wedding night, frisky little buggers.
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