how long until you have sex?

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lol!No they wont! Cos ill be in bed asleep...dreaming of my wedding night lol!:bootyshak

Hey Andy, I know you were just a bit wound up over the boredom society comment, but you know that's damn well BS mate Sex is a natural, fun thing to do that helps two partners become closer, as well as just for fun (or both as is often the case)..It's got nowt to do with being boring - I dare say being LESS boring is likely to make your partner want sex with you sooner in fact.

There's nowt wrong with holding off sex until your wedding night if that's your kind of thing, but I PERSONALLY can't think of any good reason for doing so...

In fact, Jossyboy and aj, just wondering, what're you reasons for wanting to wait until your wedding night for sex with your partner? Respectfully asked of course

..shauny

I wonder if the men in here who expect to have sex with their girlfriends ASAP are the same ones who say they wouldn't date a girl whose had more than two previous sexual partners?

until you think "gosh, I'd quite fancy some sex with this person" - usually works.

until you think "gosh, I'd quite fancy some sex with this person" - usually works.

It hasn't worked on Orlando Bloom yet - maybe he's not psychic enough

no, stupid - you'd say "sincerely" because faithfully would mean you haven't actually met them yet.

I would not intentionally wait until my wedding night.. but if my girlfriend was a Catholic and she wanted to do that, that would be no problem, and it should be no problem to any of you guys at all! I don't dictate when I want to have sex; it will come naturally to US (not just me!), so I will gladly wait until my partner is ready... No problem at all.

when in a relationship? I should hope so!

Don't be silly. Theres no problem with a girl not wanting sex till marriage, but i'll be ****ed if that means i have to stay in a relationship with her. I want sex, and i'm not going to waste the best part of my life out of some vague notion of chivalry.

This is specifically aimed at Dan (3232):

May I ask why sex is sooo important to you???
I assumed (although obviously wrongly so) that someone intelligent enough to be going to Cambridge would perhaps have other priorities.
So out of interest is the first thing you think about when meeting a girl sex? And don't you think this attitutde is a bit shallow for someone such as yourself. I'm just trying to say, that maybe if you had a bit more respect for the opposite sex, then maybe you'd receive more respect.
I don't think any decent woman would appreciate being seen as a sex object! Don't you agree??

Best wishes,
Nilz

When you're a bit older, you'll realise that sex is an important aspect of adult relationships. It's not shallow, and it's not something that only men or uneducated people feel.