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Having a human baby vs having a furbaby double standard? Watch

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    If someone told people that they wanted to have a cat, they would most likely get told..
    "Are you sure? They're a big responsibility, they're expensive" etc.

    If they told them that they wanted a baby I would most likely get told
    "What baby names are you thinking of? I'm happy for you, have you got everything ,you need?" etc.


    I don't understand this...
    Both children and cats are expensive.
    Both children and cats need to be looked after for 18+ years.
    Both are a huge life changer!
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    (Original post by Crazycatguy)
    If someone told people that they wanted to have a cat, they would most likely get told..
    "Are you sure? They're a big responsibility, they're expensive" etc.

    If they told them that they wanted a baby I would most likely get told
    "What baby names are you thinking of? I'm happy for you, have you got everything ,you need?" etc.


    I don't understand this...
    Both children and cats are expensive.
    Both children and cats need to be looked after for 18+ years.
    Both are a huge life changer!
    I know it's you MylittlePlusle. What did you do to get your ass banned? <3
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    (Original post by Ciel.)
    I know it's you MylittlePlusle. What did you do to get your ass banned? <3
    I don't know who that is.
    This hasn't got anything to do with the thread topic.

    This is a double standard a lot of people don't know about...
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    I totally agree. Not enough people get told that having a kid is a huge ****in responsibility. Parenthood shouldn't be gone into lightly. And honestly I don't think most people are cut out for the responsibility of a kid.
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    (Original post by Crazycatguy)
    I don't know who that is.
    This hasn't got anything to do with the thread topic.

    This is a double standard a lot of people don't know about...
    Don't lie, you're the only person on TSR obsessed with the word 'furbaby'. :emog:
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    (Original post by Crazycatguy)
    If someone told people that they wanted to have a cat, they would most likely get told..
    "Are you sure? They're a big responsibility, they're expensive" etc.

    If they told them that they wanted a baby I would most likely get told
    "What baby names are you thinking of? I'm happy for you, have you got everything ,you need?" etc.


    I don't understand this...
    Both children and cats are expensive.
    Both children and cats need to be looked after for 18+ years.
    Both are a huge life changer!
    You're right. Many people have kids without really thinking it through or being able to provide for them. Meanwhile, there are loving couples who are able to support a child and would love a baby, who either never get one or have to wait years because of how terrible this country's adoption system is.
 
 
 
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