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    For the last month I have seemed to have lost my sex drive. I'm no longer excited by the idea of sex and when I am with my boyfriend I feel like I need to force myself to feel turned on. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he is very good in bed. I'm 21 so I honestly don't understand why I have no sex drive. Would anyone recommend anything I can do or take to get me back to normal as it's really putting a downer on our sex life and I'm sick of having to force myself to feel sexy.
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    What's changed? What contraception are you using?
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    It could be stress, contraception, diet, work load, hormone changes, self confidence changes, boredom, anything.
    I thought it was the pill that meant I had no sex drive with my ex so I was super worried I'd have none with my current boyfriend but no, it was because I didn't find him attractive and the sex was rubbish. So really it could be anything, maybe work through the options of what it could be?
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    Are you in a comfortable situation when you're about too?

    The main reasons are usually, stress, confidence, diet or sometimes even working out/running can help!
 
 
 
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