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Girls who take long to respond?

I've been dating her for three weeks and she used to text me first and reply in usually 5 minutes and 20 minutes max, now she's taking like an hour and possibly longer to reply to my texts even though she is texting me first and she had only just gone off whatsapp. Why?

Reply 1

aliman65

Quit worrying about it. Nothing you can do really except to leave her alone and hope for a reply.

Reply 2

Livstreg123

Play her at her own game X take longer to reply. Be mean keep em keen, but not like all day

Reply 3

PrincessBO$$

Taste of ur own medicine? You say u take 20 mins to reply :tongue:

Reply 4

perspectives

Personally I think it's stupid but some girls do it to establish dominance, so they don't look clingy and so you have to chase her, just beat her at her own game and she'll realise it's pointless.

Reply 5

username1726117

This is a problem I have on the off chance I finally do get a girl's number. I'm not clingy in the slightest, it's more a case of "Yes! Finally! A bit of success! Oh **** she ain't responded for five hours...I give up".

Anyway, people have lives. Work, school, friends, family. Sometimes they lose interest, sometimes they're games playing. If she replies, do the same...wait a while before sending her a response.

Reply 6

EllainKahlo

It's either a game to her, to not look clingy, she's busy or she's not interested but still trying to be nice.

Reply 7

username1842595

She could just genuinely be busy?

Reply 8

1secondsofvamps

She's either actually busy or just don't want to be clingy.
Even though I hate to have people think I'm clingy I always reply quite quickly because my phone is always in my hands