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    Long story short basically last year my boyfriend and I took a break because his housemate was being too friendly and he couldn't see it, also we weren't vibing well at that time.
    We got back together and I suffer with really bad anxiety. I have tried to say hello to his housemate (the girl) now and again and she just ignores me or gives me a strange look and looks away, I've told my boyfriend this but he thinks I'm being 'paranoid' his male housemate gives me a lot of anxiety due to how aggressive he can sound and the way he talks about women in general, sickens me.
    Whenever I hear them upstairs I get major anxiety and I don't know how to control it, I buy food for my boyfriend and I've been hearing the girl housemate come downstairs and steal my food that I buy for him when I cook for him, wedges disappeared and now my mince! And he still refuses to say anything to her, I don't know what to do, any opinions?
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    To be honest, I would probably break up with him if I were you. It just doesn't sound like he cares about you that much, and caring about the other person is the basis of any healthy relationship.
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    There is no issues between me and my boyfriend, we are perfectly happy. It's just this situation and I don't think he understands my condition at all and his housemates are the people who make me feel this way
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    Why do you have to visit him at his place? Just go out or go to you house/flat.
 
 
 
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