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    So I've come to the decision at least for the time being that I'll visit an escort regularly because quite frankly women that I find attractive will simply not give me a chance. Tried everything, thrown a lot of money away trying to do it the normal way.

    Basically my childhood was dreadful and I was psychologically abused and bullied for years when I was growing up. This has meant that now as an adult I feel defective as a human being. I simply cannot change the past and I've thrown thousands of pounds at trying to recover from past events.

    I'd consider myself a physically attractive male. I have a good job and I'm intelligent but I'm simply not attractive to some women when it comes to my personality.

    What would you do in my situation?
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    I wouldn't recommend it buddy.
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    If i were you I'd investigate in a really good therapist
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    I shagged an escort at 17, sort of felt some regret it wasn't with someone I love, but tbh, I only really love one girl and she doesn't love me. That and I didn't want to be a virgin at 18...girls would laugh at me.
    Anyway, do it if you want to. As long as you aren't seeking any relationship etc it doesn't matter. If it's purely sexual urges then go for it, just make sure you wear a Jonny, though I am going for a sexual health check, mainly due to being paranoid. That is always a worry, though shagging some bird on a night out that doesn't protect herself ever is probably no better so.....
    Go for it laddy. I personally wanted some intimacy with a women, I live in the middle of nowhere and can't drive so I was okay with it haha, the only bad thing is the cost... And I cuddled the escort I got for half the time as well.
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    (Original post by goam)
    If i were you I'd investigate in a really good therapist
    Have done so and spent around £3000 on it but it hasn't resolved the problem. There's another course I can do and it costs £15000 which could help me. But who has £15000 to pay for this - I don't.
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    This is one of the rare occasions where I'd say go for it and have fun
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    as long as there's no hint of the escort being pimped/trafficked etc. and that you're not a virgin. I can't imagine what it'd be like losing your virginity to someone you've paid.
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    Don't, if you do this then you will only become more unattractive to women.

    Imagine if you do meet a girl in the future, she may leave you if she finds out.

    Just keep using your hand.
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    If I met a guy I'd rather hear he lost his virginity in his 20s than he paid for it with a prostitute at a younger age. Just sayin'.*
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    (Original post by LavenderBlueSky88)
    If I met a guy I'd rather hear he lost his virginity in his 20s than he paid for it with a prostitute at a younger age. Just sayin'.*
    See OP, women are gonna be very judgemental when it comes to your sexual history. If you do do it then you're gonna have to keep it a secret for the rest of your life.
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    this doesn't seem like the best solution
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    (Original post by Jay_Cartwright)
    See OP, women are gonna be very judgemental when it comes to your sexual history. If you do do it then you're gonna have to keep it a secret for the rest of your life.
    In all fairness, not really their concern. Sexual history should stay in the past. Unless for health reasons.
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    Hi

    So I've come to the decision at least for the time being that I'll visit an escort regularly because quite frankly women that I find attractive will simply not give me a chance. Tried everything, thrown a lot of money away trying to do it the normal way.

    Basically my childhood was dreadful and I was psychologically abused and bullied for years when I was growing up. This has meant that now as an adult I feel defective as a human being. I simply cannot change the past and I've thrown thousands of pounds at trying to recover from past events.

    I'd consider myself a physically attractive male. I have a good job and I'm intelligent but I'm simply not attractive to some women when it comes to my personality.

    What would you do in my situation?
    I wouldn't but it's your choice. Make sure she's clean
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    (Original post by Jay_Cartwright)
    See OP, women are gonna be very judgemental when it comes to your sexual history. If you do do it then you're gonna have to keep it a secret for the rest of your life.
    Personally, I really wouldn't mind... A mans past is his past, as long as he's not seeing an escort while he's with me.

    I also find the comments about escorts being dirty on here really stupid. Granted some are, but most people that work in the sex industry are very careful and a lot cleaner and get checked a lot more frequently than the average person (most around twice a month minimum)

    You have a much higher chance getting an infection from a woman willing to have a one night stand in a classy bar.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    In all fairness, not really their concern. Sexual history should stay in the past. Unless for health reasons.
    Exactly.

    (Original post by rubybrown1234)
    Personally, I really wouldn't mind... A mans past is his past, as long as he's not seeing an escort while he's with me.

    I also find the comments about escorts being dirty on here really stupid. Granted some are, but most people that work in the sex industry are very careful and a lot cleaner and get checked a lot more frequently than the average person (most around twice a month minimum)

    You have a much higher chance getting an infection from a woman willing to have a one night stand in a classy bar.
    That actually makes a lot of sense.
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    Fine aids
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    (Original post by Jay_Cartwright)
    Don't, if you do this then you will only become more unattractive to women.

    Imagine if you do meet a girl in the future, she may leave you if she finds out.

    Just keep using your hand.
    He should go back to uni. If he does "better bring his wellies, cos he'll be knee deep in clunge!"
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    Use protection. She most likely has had her fair deal of STIs.
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    (Original post by fermat1324)
    He should go back to uni. If he does "better bring his wellies, cos he'll be knee deep in clunge!"
    You have to reply to me on the only 1 or 2 threads that I'm not posting Jay style lies on.
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    Hi

    So I've come to the decision at least for the time being that I'll visit an escort regularly because quite frankly women that I find attractive will simply not give me a chance. Tried everything, thrown a lot of money away trying to do it the normal way.

    Basically my childhood was dreadful and I was psychologically abused and bullied for years when I was growing up. This has meant that now as an adult I feel defective as a human being. I simply cannot change the past and I've thrown thousands of pounds at trying to recover from past events.

    I'd consider myself a physically attractive male. I have a good job and I'm intelligent but I'm simply not attractive to some women when it comes to my personality.

    What would you do in my situation?
    I think if you want to try it you should go for it. But, you really have to understand you have to do this carefully. Plan everything out at first so you know how it will go. know where to take her. know what to do. If you do do it get back on here and make a thread because I want to hear all about it. I haven't had too many experiences with prostitutes. If you do go to a prostitute don't tell any of your real life friends about it because they will just tease you all of time. Don't see a prostitute and have her bring a friend along. If there's more than one will definitely try to steal from you
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    (Original post by fg45344)
    Use protection. She most likely has had her fair deal of STIs.
    Escorts are regularly checked and are clean
 
 
 
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