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    why are so many people obsessed with it
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    I don't believe in stuff like sex before marriage.
    Lmao good luck.
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    (Original post by eden3)
    Lmao good luck.
    I don't think you should be laughing at my beliefs, there are a lot of people who agree with me.
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    I don't think you should be laughing at my beliefs, there are a lot of people who agree with me.
    I'm not denying that, but it's very rare in this day and age - especially at our age.

    I guess it depends on your background and what country you live in.
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    (Original post by eden3)
    I'm not denying that, but it's very rare in this day and age - especially at our age.

    I guess it depends on your background and what country you live in.
    That's true, I guess your right it is quite rare for people in general however religion influences
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    I don't think you should be laughing at my beliefs, there are a lot of people who agree with me.
    No woz, we share the same beliefs! Sexual activity before marriage is really frowned upon in Chinese communities as well. It's slightly more liberal in some countries that have a more diverse mix of races and less so in others but the general consensus is the same
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    (Original post by rosemondtan)
    No woz, we share the same beliefs! Sexual activity before marriage is really frowned upon in Chinese communities as well. It's slightly more liberal in some countries that have a more diverse mix of races and less so in others but the general consensus is the same
    Really I didn't know that! I know a Chinese girl though whose mum is really strict about grades and stuff.

    Yeah So you see that's why I want to find a likeminded guy
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    Really I didn't know that! I know a Chinese girl though whose mum is really strict about grades and stuff.

    Yeah So you see that's why I want to find a likeminded guy
    It's not gonna be easy, my previous one didn't work out because of this and when you find out it's really quite heartbreaking but take your time, there will always be a guy out there who loves you enough to not pressure you into what you don't believe in. Question - are you living in the UK?
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    (Original post by rosemondtan)
    It's not gonna be easy, my previous one didn't work out because of this and when you find out it's really quite heartbreaking but take your time, there will always be a guy out there who loves you enough to not pressure you into what you don't believe in. Question - are you living in the UK?
    Yeah I'm in the Uk the area I'm in there's not much Muslims though. So I'm a bit stuck finding someone
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    Hello, I am interested in finding a guy for a serious relationship with, I know I'm only young at eighteen but I feel like this is what I need. I say serious because I don't believe in stuff like sex before marriage. I tried looking in dating apps but they didn't work. So now in asking you guys if you know of any Muslim guys who are looking for something serious, ie getting to know someone, then engagement and then marriage. Please DM me, or post here if you have any ideas for me
    I meet that description. The truth however is it is very difficult to find this in this day and age. Also I doubt you will find one. What do you mean by serious doe lol like nikkah on the first day? Surely you would want to have some dates before hand to get to know the person
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    (Original post by eden3)
    Lmao good luck.
    Hey there lord eden
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    Hey there lord eden
    Hey maynne....

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    I meet that description. The truth however is it is very difficult to find this in this day and age. Also I doubt you will find one. What do you mean by serious doe lol like nikkah on the first day? Surely you would want to have some dates before hand to get to know the person
    Haha Noo way nikkah on first day, I don't mean rush into things, but I mean after a year or so get engaged, then a couple of years married. Because I just feel lonely and I feel like this is what's missing, and I know I'm mature enough to take it seriously and care for the other person.
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    Haha Noo way nikkah on first day, I don't mean rush into things, but I mean after a year or so get engaged, then a couple of years married. Because I just feel lonely and I feel like this is what's missing, and I know I'm mature enough to take it seriously and care for the other person.
    lol can't believe I am tempted to DM you. The truth is though it would be too hard. First year fine your going out with the guy but your going to need a nikkah soon. Then your going to need to buy a place and stuff. I know it can for muslims with these relationships and then find someone your parents would also accept. TBH im confused about the religion and am more of a cultural muslim. I used to pray 5 times but then I stopped . I don't understand why religion is so complicated :s
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    I recommend you just socialise with friends and family.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I recommend you just socialise with friends and family.
    I do socialise with friends,
    It's not that I'm bored but it's just what my heart desires,
    It's not lust or anything but I just want someone to care for
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    lol can't believe I am tempted to DM you. The truth is though it would be too hard. First year fine your going out with the guy but your going to need a nikkah soon. Then your going to need to buy a place and stuff. I know it can for muslims with these relationships and then find someone your parents would also accept. TBH im confused about the religion and am more of a cultural muslim. I used to pray 5 times but then I stopped . I don't understand why religion is so complicated :s
    I see what you mean, but I think there are ways around it. Like who says that you need to get a place? I mean I think the whole point is to find a life partner and to find happiness as well. I don't think you have to live with someone t care about them. Even if you want to though that can be arranged, for example if you don't have hundreds of money you can rent a cheap flat just temporarily until you save up.
    I'm not too concerned about my parents as long as I find a decent muslim guy no one will mind.

    Ohh Why are you confused? Tbh I'm a bit of both, cultural and religion, but actually I think culture dominates for me.
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    Hey maynne....

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    Am I lookin gewwwwwwwwwd ma??
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