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my 27 year old girlfriend is bixsexual she told me, please help me this changes everything
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What exactly changes and how?
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How does it change everything? If she's loyal to you, why should it matter?
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(Original post by james forrester)
my 27 year old girlfriend is bixsexual she told me, please help me this changes everything
What does it change lol? She's still into you, right?
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i always thought this was a good thing
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... 3-way potential?
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if you are in love with each other there is no problem.
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Why does it change a thing? It wouldn't bother you if you never knew.
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This is good. You should request a threesome with another girl.
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(Original post by Unown Uzer)
This is good. You should request a threesome with another girl.
Please don't, it might make her feel you don't take her sexual orientation seriously. Perhaps at a later date talk about opening up your relationship, but it's not a good immediate reaction. I think the OP is a bit shocked and needs to come to terms with it, so should be focusing on understanding how their gf being bi doesn't change things. After that (if they manage that...) they should probably show their gf they're accepting of her sexual orientation. THEN ask about a threesome.
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1. Her being bi doesn't necessarily change anything. Some bi people do want open/poly relationships but this is not all bi people. If your girlfriend hasn't mentioned that yet then don't presume anything.

2. Bi women don't necessarily want threesomes. So unless she brings it up, don't ask BECAUSE she's bi.
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(Original post by SmallTownGirl)
1. Her being bi doesn't necessarily change anything. Some bi people do want open/poly relationships but this is not all bi people. If your girlfriend hasn't mentioned that yet then don't presume anything.

2. Bi women don't necessarily want threesomes. So unless she brings it up, don't ask BECAUSE she's bi.
I wouldn't say the OP can't bring it up at all, since there's no reason why they can't ask to find out how they're gf feels about it- starting conversations isn't wrong. But they should definitely be prepared for their gf to say no, since as you said being bi and wanting monogamy are not mutually exclusive.
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(Original post by james forrester)
my 27 year old girlfriend is bixsexual she told me, please help me this changes everything
No it doesn't. It means she's capable of being attracted to women as well as men, not that you're going to come home one day and find her in bed with a pretty blonde.

Get a hold of yourself, man.
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Either this is a troll or OP is beyond childish. I reckon the former since his gf is 27.
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my 27 year old girlfriend is bixsexual she told me, please help me this changes everything
What difference does this make if she wants to be with you, none at all.
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I don't get why some guys get so offended/shock when they find out their girlfriend's bisexual. She still likes you, hence why you were in a relationship in the first place. Only difference is that just like you, she also gets attracted to girls. Smh, calm down.
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Where's the issue?
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She's with you. Chill out. This changes nothing at all. Try being supportive of her and you'll realise that.
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my 27 year old girlfriend is bixsexual she told me, please help me this changes everything
So she needs help becuase you don't like her sexual orientation ?

Either learn to deal with it , given that relationships are about compromise.

Or you leave her and let someone else date her instead.
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and?


I have a sneaky belief that most women are bisexual to some degree.
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